Family & Relationships - 27 August 2006

He is paying support for 2 siblings but the oldest one isn't biologically his child. How can he go about to get that court ordered payment stopped. His payments are taken out of his check bi-weekly. he doesn't see either of the kids. And he owes back payment so they also collect his taxes when he file. What does he need to do to take care of that situation and only pay for the child that is biologically his?

2006-08-27 06:48:36 · 7 answers · asked by vallaqte28 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-27 06:48:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

said he had been out for a meal with two women that you didn't know and he doesn't know why you are making an issue out of it..............he can't seem to see that this has hurt me........we do have a very trusting relationship but i feel as though he's cheated.... what would you do?

2006-08-27 06:47:54 · 38 answers · asked by fossil 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best (girl) friend is going out with a guy, and he is great so I have no reason (and no intention) to break them up, but from what I have been told on this site, it is probably only a matter of time till they do break up. What I want to know is what I should do when (if) they do? Should I just be a shoulder to cry on? What should I tell her?

2006-08-27 06:47:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-27 06:45:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am compiling a list of 100 things I want to do before I die, and I was wondering what other people want too! My top five are:

1) Find true love
2) Graduate from University
3) Learn a new language
4) Travel through Italy
5) Research my ancestry

What are your top 5?

2006-08-27 06:44:42 · 17 answers · asked by prairiefire_14 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

you all say your first time hurt, jus how bad did it hurt??? feel good at all???? my girlfriends a virgin and i want to have the heads up on just how painful it will be for her..

2006-08-27 06:44:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and like the person ur datin is rlly sensitive n rlly funny..but not that smart..but the other 1 is sweet n hot n nice n is smart..

2006-08-27 06:43:52 · 4 answers · asked by !Poka☼Dot☼Hottie! 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, i need some advice ... i went on a movie "date" with a guy that I asked out , and I never really said the word date, so I'm not sure if he considers it one, but anyways, since I asked him out, am I expected to ask him out again? or should I just make it even more obvious to him that I like him and wait for him to say something? I saw him today at church but we didn't get a chance to talk or anything, but that was the first time i've seen him since like a week ago ( the day of the movie date)... and how can I make him feel more confortable to like call me or something, because he hasn't. We went to the movies that one time, and that was it. Is it because he doesnt like me or because he's just really shy?

2006-08-27 06:43:40 · 5 answers · asked by ~Brianna~ 2 in Singles & Dating

or should i wait for him

2006-08-27 06:41:46 · 18 answers · asked by lil'mama 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you do if you've never heard God's voice? I've never heard His voice and I really want to. I know it's in the Father's own will and time to do so and I have prayed so many times and so hard. Maybe He is talking to me but I'm just not tuned in. How do I get 'tuned' in? When my sister was going through bad times the Lord spoke to her through my mother and she did as He said and everything has turned out right for her. I'm kinda in trouble with my relationship with God and wordliness etc. I pray and cry often that the Lord would talk and guide me through this time just like He did for her. Is He mad at me that He wont talk to me?

2006-08-27 06:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he has a gf but i donno

2006-08-27 06:40:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so I know this guy and i think he likes me. He alway is trying to make me laugh. This one time I was walking home he walked with me and left his brother and cuz walk in front. This other time close to the end of school he tryed to kiss me but he chickened out. And this one time i was outside going to the park i saw him,his brother,and his friend. He came up to me kind of close and asked me how everything was and how my summer is going. He alway ask me questions like how i am and everything it's like he wants to know my life from the inside out. before the time he tryed to kiss me there was this dance and he didn't go but his brother did. And me and my friend where walkin' home and he comes out of nowhere and is walkin' in back of you with his buddy. and he askes his buddy if he can borrow his skateboard and when riding it he was looking at me and said "OH YEAH *****(His brother im not gonna say his name) IS AT THE DANCE" really loud I don't understand i already knew that.

2006-08-27 06:39:59 · 20 answers · asked by =/ 2 in Singles & Dating

g1 & b1 luv each other....due to family presure, g1 has to 2 get engaged to b2 & b1 has 2 get married to g2....but both are unable 2 do justice to their partners & are not happy......they both still luv each other, rather all the more & want to b together, what 2 do

2006-08-27 06:38:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-27 06:38:26 · 8 answers · asked by Frog L 1 in Friends

Okay, my best friend is really sick...strep throat.....and my family and I were invited to her mom's birthday party. She said she would be in her room the whole time. So should I stay with my friend in her room, or leave her alone...check in on her? Keep in mind i'm 16.

2006-08-27 06:38:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why???

2006-08-27 06:37:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-27 06:37:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-27 06:36:07 · 7 answers · asked by NeaNea 2 in Family

2006-08-27 06:35:45 · 19 answers · asked by Reymond Parker 1 in Family

My GF and I have been dating 2 yrs. A few months after meeting, we were pretty much always together. 6 mo. later, she moved 50 mi. away-cost-of-living reasons-knowing this would make things hard for us. She said she’d only be able to come up to my place when her kid was at her dad’s - every 2 wks. This meant I would have to do all the driving. It adds 1:30 of driving to my day, and I’m away from home lots. It’s hard, but I do it because she is important to me.

Now she gets mad when I spend the night at my place-she takes for granted that I am making all the effort to overcome the problems her decision to move created. She says since I spend so much time at her place, I should share responsibilities - like buying food and doing chores - which I do, even though the reason I’m there so much is because she never comes up to my place.

2006-08-27 06:35:12 · 5 answers · asked by Matthew B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

have sex with my b/f. hes been on his holiday for two weeks.. iv missed him loads but all i want is a good shag!

2006-08-27 06:34:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-27 06:34:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-27 06:32:27 · 12 answers · asked by ptowndawgs 1 in Family

My kid just crapped his pants and I am trying to figure out how to deal with it. He is 5 years old and knows better. No good reason for it either. We are at home and no one was in the bathroom.

2006-08-27 06:31:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay so here's the thing...I work with my husbands friend...I love my job so quitting is out of the question... I set him up with a friend of mine from work and it didn't work out between them, she said he wasn't her type...whatever, any way since then he has come over to my husband and i's house a couple times since then..and just recently i had a dream that my husband and i got a divorce and his friend helped me through it...and it was one of those really real dreams, and i can't get it out of my head...he is a really great guy...and i love my husband but i just can't get this out of my head..and advice would be greatly appreciated...thank you

2006-08-27 06:31:32 · 23 answers · asked by Jen M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i've jus come back from holiday which i went on for 5 weeks, i kept in contact wit my bf through txtin. which was hard cos we'd call eachother everyday and chatted for like an hour, and emailed one another when at work. so we kept in touch all the time.
he lives an hours drive away from me, so i speak over the fone most of the time. but since being back i keep looking for arguemants. why am i doing that? he doesn't argue back and doesnt know why i start arguing over lil things and tries to calm me down. i still love him i know i do. but why do i pick at lil things and make such big deal out of it? plz help i'm soo confused :-(
(we've been together for 9 months)

2006-08-27 06:29:00 · 7 answers · asked by DaRkAnGeL 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'ma girl. i'ma christian. i'm attracted to guys. but soemtimes when i'm pmsing i get attracted to girls. and its not a physical attraction. its totally emotional. does anyone else struggle with this? i'm not a lesbo and i don't want to be. how do i get rid of it? i jsut want it to stop.

2006-08-27 06:28:41 · 18 answers · asked by emwads 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-27 06:28:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've mainly lived with people. Now I'm moving out on my own scary.

2006-08-27 06:27:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends