i'ma girl. i'ma christian. i'm attracted to guys. but soemtimes when i'm pmsing i get attracted to girls. and its not a physical attraction. its totally emotional. does anyone else struggle with this? i'm not a lesbo and i don't want to be. how do i get rid of it? i jsut want it to stop.
2006-08-27 06:28:41 · 18 answers · asked by emwads 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
honey really don't be worried about it. when i was younger i was afraid i was attracted to girls and i was scared as hell to think what people would think of me and that was just the end of the world. i'm not a lesbian, i'm not even bi, but i think i had an attraction to parts of their bodies, maybe that i wish i looked like. you say its emotional for you, maybe there are some personality traits that you really admire about someone. i think i have a few of those. but if that's not the case, thats ok. do what makes you happy.
2006-08-27 06:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a hormone switch. purely biological.
Just tell yourself, There goes that silly feeling again.
You are not a lesbian. Try taking vitamins and drinking more water. get some exercise during the month to help regulate your hormones. By the way, Don't experiment with homosexuality to see if you like it. It is not an easy life they live.
Spend time in prayer. Tell Satan to get behind you that you love and serve Jesus Christ. Use this time to draw close to God and ask the Blessed Mother to help you through the PMS and any other female stuff. The Angels and saints can pray with us and for us.
God Bless You, ;-)
2006-08-27 06:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all don't act like lesbians are lepers. I understand its against your religion but its also your religion to treat your neighbors as you would them. Chances are you're emotionally attracted to women while you pms because youre depressed and feel that the only way you'll feel better is with the companionship of a woman. Typically i think all of us feel depressed and alone while we pms and ideally women are more affectionate and understanding. It's not sexual so it's not like you're planning on settling down with a woman you just need a girlfriend to help you through things. Don't go crazy thinking you're doing something against your backrounds. its ok
2006-08-27 06:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by andthatshypocricy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure. If you mean you feel closer to women that you have a connection to, it could mean that you just connect, doesn't have to be in a sexual way. I personally do not, but each person is different. Some people who are pms'ing want nothing to do with anyone.
If your hormones really are bothering you, you should see your doctor.
2006-08-27 06:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you just want a good friend. One to whom you could confide in and trust. I wouldn't worry about getting over it. I don't think you have anything to get over. Just have good girlfriends to talk to. Everyone needs a really good friend. It has nothing to do with a physical attraction.
2006-08-27 06:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by papricka w 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you afrade god will hate you?
dont worry about it lass. mabys its just your body telling you that when your PMSing thats its time to look at prettyer thinks. go look at some male models or pictures of nice land scapes and see if you get the same emotions when you are PMSiNG. also dont worry about it so much!
2006-08-27 06:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to pray that GOD delivers you from that spirit. Remember that this lifestyle is against what GOD'S word says. Do not feel condemned. These are human feelings and emotions but that does not mean you have to act on them.
2006-08-27 06:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Tonya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian, despite you "Christian teachings." It sounds like you are confused about your sexual identity and should open yourself up to the possibility of you being attracted to other women. There is no shame in it.
2006-08-27 06:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry hun but a lesbian is a female that is just attracted females. You are BI. Which means you are attracted to men a females. Look around they are everywhere and there is nothing wrong with that.
2006-08-27 06:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get the new ID and PM, talk with only known friends
bye
2006-08-27 06:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by chamila2020 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋