He told me we need a break away of each other but i want him back soon... what can i do to get him back?

Answer 1

Sorry, you can't get him back. He will either come back on his own, or he won't.

But having been in this situation, once someone has left it is best to keep it that way.

Answer 2

It sucks when this happens. I so know how you feel right now. It hurts and you almost feel like you have to do something before it's too late.

Truth is only he really knows what he meant when he told you he wanted a break from the relationship. Sometimes people get all caught up in a relationship and lose track of themselves. They need some time to find themselves and see what they think they've been missing out on.

The best thing for you to do is ask him calmly and rationally, not crying and all emotionally, why he needs to do this. Once he has given you his answer then you need to accept it, as hard as that may be, and allow him his time and space. Otherwise you'll come across as being clingy and desperate and no one wants someone like that, and I'm sure you don't want to be like that.

"When you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, then it never was." It's an old saying that has been around a long time. Some people think it's stupid, others think it has a lot of meaning to it. He may very well come back to you.

Give it some time. Don't sit around waiting too long. Life is too short. Get out there and date other guys. Who knows maybe once you both have had some time to explore and see what's out there you'll realize that he was great but there's someone more wonderful for you.

Good luck. (((hug)))

Answer 3

We can't make someone feel a certain way if he said he wants a break he took the responsability of breaking up the relationship not you. Its going to be hard for the first few weeks but hang in there it will get better with time. People break up every day and survive. Now its the time to worry about you, start making a new life for yourself and be independent you can make yourself happy you don't need anyone to make you feel happy or complete. Maybe when he realizes that he made a mistake it will be too late because you'll realize he's not the one for you and then he'll be wishing he had you back. You should only want to be with those who want to be with you and who truly care for you and are there no matter what. That's the most important key when you're looking for a partner for your life.

Answer 4

When someone says you need a break away from each other that is only a way of ending it. You can tell him you love him and why but, if he doesn't love you I doubt if it will help. Did he say this in anger? Could be hope there but, if not then I think it's over. I'm very sorry.

Answer 5

Sweetie..If he told you he wants to take a break, it really means he wants to break up with you. There's prolly another girl, or he really wants to end the relationship. Tell him how you feel and ask why you two are going on a break. Sometimes he just wants a break to go with another girl and when he's done with her, then he'll go back with you. That's not a guy you want.

Answer 6

You need to re-think your priorities.

Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?

You're worth more than that. If he doesn't want to be with you, don't walk, RUN as far as you can get. I wouldn't spend another minute pining for someone who doesn't want to be with you. Life is way too short and there are a lot of other people who WOULD want to spend time with you. Spend your time getting out there to meet THEM.

And being unavailable and moving on is often a great impetus to make a guy re-think what HE wants and to come running back. Success and happiness are the best pulls to get some looking at you again.

Then, the ball is in YOUR court because you've moved on and you can decide who YOU want to be with.

Answer 7

look sweetie if he says he wants a break it doesnt mean its going to be for good in some cases it might but dont you think if he really wanted over he wouldve just said it.its over.look me n ma boy take breaks and sometimes it hurts me and i want him back so bad but you have to let them come back to you.you see if he knows your going to be waiting for him he might take longer but if he realizes your moving on then he might come back sooner. see me n my bf where on a break this whole summer it was so long but when he found out i was moving on n there was another guy i was talking to he came back n where going back out. i ask him and other guys why they take breaks n most of them say its because theyre stressed out,or they need their space, they just dont want any more fights if that da case or etc. but ask him if its a break or break up there is a diffrence. sometimes a couple just needs a break to cool things off a bit but plz sweetie dont put yourself down take this time to spend time with friends and have fun ok.if you have any questions or any problem just email me ok. take care best wishes

Answer 8

Wish I can give you the right solution to get him back apart from being honest by stating your true feelings about him,give him that space he demanded and keep that communication open.

Let time do its wonders and if still it's not,let him go and gradually move on.Keep your pride by not begging--he will only resent that as a negative attitude of you.

best wishes.

Answer 9

If you love him, you wil wait for him. Provided you are smart enough to tell the difference between "We need a break from each other" and "We need a break from each other".

Answer 10

you need to let him go because he probably wants a break away because your annoying him or he may want a break from you so he can see other people without feeling guilty.