i've jus come back from holiday which i went on for 5 weeks, i kept in contact wit my bf through txtin. which was hard cos we'd call eachother everyday and chatted for like an hour, and emailed one another when at work. so we kept in touch all the time.
he lives an hours drive away from me, so i speak over the fone most of the time. but since being back i keep looking for arguemants. why am i doing that? he doesn't argue back and doesnt know why i start arguing over lil things and tries to calm me down. i still love him i know i do. but why do i pick at lil things and make such big deal out of it? plz help i'm soo confused :-(
(we've been together for 9 months)
2006-08-27 06:29:00 · 7 answers · asked by DaRkAnGeL 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ps i didn't do anything on holiday, as in have a fling with anyone or anything like that.
2006-08-27 06:56:31 · update #1
There is probably some underlying issue. You are probably angry with him for some other reason. Find it, deal with it, and it will get better.
2006-08-27 06:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by sammie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you do anything on holiday he might not have liked you to do? Guilt can normally make people do that. Or, perhaps you had such a good time you subconsciously resent him for dragging you back. If you have a good think I'm sure the reason will become apparent eventually.
2006-08-27 06:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by valiumgodmother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you kind of sound like my boyfriend. He gets mad at me all the time over the smallest things and it hurts. It hurts because I truly love him and I dont think he cares about me by the way he acts. It sucks because it makes me feel insecure with my relationship. Try talking to him because I know he needs it. Let me ask you something, were you like that in past relationships? Let me know and keep me posted. It will actually help me out..
2006-08-27 06:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by Kit Katt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my question is" what did you do on holiday that you are ashamed of and made you feel unworthy of your BF.
if you didn't argue before your holiday and now your finding things to argue about either you are feeling guilty about something you did or your whole perspective of your relationship has changed
Good luck
2006-08-27 06:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your holiday has made you realise that this guy isn't the one for you. you can still love someone a a friend
2006-08-27 10:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tracy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your experiences have changed your perception on life and now find your bf no longer matches where your head's
at.
2006-08-27 06:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop wasting your time, your not in love with him anymore, hes dull, boring and mean.........leave
2006-08-27 06:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋