Ok. If you read some of my last questions, you will see how I was debating leaving my hubby. I can't put up with abuse anymore, so I am leaving.
I started by opening another account with my name only and had my paychecks deposited there. Secondly, I found and applied for an apartment close to work. I got it!Now I am moving in 2 weeks.
Basically last night, I told him I wanted to separate(for the millionth time). He said he would follow me home and find out where I lived(if I left him). So I said "well, i guess I will have to get a PFA(police protection) from you then, so u won't kill me.", he then replied with"If you did that, it would only piss me off more, and u wouldn't see the gun".
Now, he does not know I have the apartment. He knows only that I am wanting to separate. So my question to you guys is:
How do I tell him? I know everyone is gonna say tell him quickly! But I am scared. We came up with this: Move out while he's at work. What do you all think???
2006-08-26
09:04:21
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