we have been going out for almost two years...and we constantly fight. We still love eachother but there is no spark. We still have not had sex does that have anything to do with it? Any suggestions on what to do?
2006-08-26 09:06:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, two years. That's a long time.
Look on the bright side: you guys made it past two years so there has got to be the spark left in the relationship right? Instead of fighting with each other, try to hear each other out.. listen to what they have to say and respect each other's opinions. That way, it'll cease the agruements and etc.
I doubt the sex has anything to do with it unless that's what you're fighting about? NONE OF MY BUSINESS.
I think you guys should try to work things out with listening first. Then go out and try something new together. Compliment each other often.. take the time to do something special for her like set up a romantic dinner with candlelight. She'll totally fall in love with you again, I swear! It's the little things that count.
I hope things will turn out for the better! good luck!
2006-08-26 09:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you've passed throught the honeymoon stage of your relationship. Now the real work begins. There will be disagreements, disappointments and perhaps at time you may feel disallutions. But throught these times of trial and tribulations is where love can truly grow and blossom. Not only that but sometimes you two just need to repeat doing some of the things that you most enjoyed earlier on in your relationship. Best of luck to you both and remember that neither love nor live is easy but anything worth working for is worthwhile.
2006-08-26 09:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well love is hard to explain friend. There is no love if you are always fighting. Try doing things that will help you not to fight you might wanna tell her this also. And 2 years without sex may have something to do with it also. I mean 2 years of dating and something needs to happen and soon. lol
2006-08-26 09:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by ron6taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation with my boyfriend and honestly all we needed was some space. Not in the sense that we were dating other people or anyting, I just went to my parents for the week and I missed him so much that everything that we had been fighting over was silly....you don't know what you have till it's gone......sometimes space is all you need once in a while.
2006-08-26 09:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by wilsonfromthefrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sex thing is a factor. if you are holding out, then maybe is time to try going out with other people keeping in mind, if thats what you want, that you will get back together
2006-08-26 09:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by rumbz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude , the point is you should not always see spark in each other , every body has limitation , u have to make new senarios always .
2006-08-26 09:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by sall 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa whoa whoa ..... did u jus say sex...?? u r prolly out of ur mind ....... cuz sex isn't the base of a relationship ... trust me ... after sex u guyz wud n't get together even more . rpolly break up in a few weeks. 4 u . i wud reccomend giving up to her if u luv her a lot .. tht's wat i do ..... so v hav no fights.... her lieks r my likes and her dislikes mayb my dislikes...... gud luk!!!
2006-08-26 09:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont have sex, but if you still love her..idk...try blindfold making out or somthing lol.
2006-08-26 09:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by Computer Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have sex, now!
2006-08-26 09:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋