For most of my life I was the fat kid that became the fat guy. Everyone "liked" me because if I had a dollar in my pocket, they could have half. if they were hungry, they could chow down at my house. If they were cold, well, I think you know what I mean. I wish I had a dollar for every slap or punch I took for no reason other than being fat.I thought the girls were pretty until they fixed me up with their friends to get a few laughs. Well, I'm not a bad looking guy, I'm 5'11 and weigh 165, been that way for 10 years. Do you want to know who my friends are? My music and my cats.
2006-08-26 09:08:25 · 16 answers · asked by sluggo1947 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its because of people like them that we become loners
people who make fun of others for looking or being diffrent are just looking for a cover to cover there innner nastiness
they are the losers in the world who get older and then they look back and think why they did it because by this time they are wearing the shoe on te other foot
so keep your head high and dont think about the losers
long as you love you thats what counts :D
at least you dont cost a whole lot to take your self out :)
2006-08-26 09:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by tearsNheaven 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you just answered your own question but I've always been a loner myself. I chose to be a loner since about gr 6.
We were always moving and I'd have to make new friends while losing my old ones and just found it to be exhausting, so I chose to be my own best friend. That way I wouldn't have to get hurt everytime I lost one.
Of course I had "friends," people who I'd hang out with cuz that was expected of me, but I was always happiest when alone. People can't understand that because they think everybody needs somebody but the person who will always be there for you in the end is yourself.
As long as you don't lock yourself in a room and dedicate your life to making plans to destroy the world or hurt people... I think being a loner is fine.
2006-08-26 09:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Caramella 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all, its really sad for me to hear how badly you were treated as a kid. people stereotype other people based on stupid things like looks and weight all the time, and its horrible. they don't even give people time to show who they truly are. theres nothing really you can do about it, besides maybe try to be more friendly. walk up to someone and say hey, try to strike up a conversation. if you're open and show people that your not what they think you are, you can make friends. But being a loner really isn't all that bad. If you're happy with yourself, which you should be, you should be fine. Just go out and enjoy life. Good luck :)
2006-08-26 09:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they think there outcasts of society. I think it has to with self confidence. If you have a low self confidence then your afraid of what people might say about.
The only think you could do is go out and meet new people. Accept yourself for who you really are, if people don't except you then there not your true friends.
I guess it has to do with social norms, some people are not seen as normal which is kind of harsh and superficial.
Certain type of people are shun from society because on the way the look, there race, there sexual orientation or there social status. It kind of sad to see society act like that.
2006-08-26 09:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by de_dark_angel71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get hurt enough you just back away. After a while it becomes life and you are happy with it. I was really hurt and I never got over it. Now, I have a few friends, a few regular activities and a great dog. I am actually happy with my life. However, it would be sad to let a few careless people years ago dictate your happiness. You can not go through life thinking everyone you meet will one day disappoint you.
2006-08-26 09:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 12:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by edme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like all the abuse you took when you were younger has taken it's toll and now your afraid that nay one who wants to be your friend is just using you for your money or to get a laugh. you should seek out someone to help you. some sort of support group or counseling. you sound like a very sweet person who gor played one too many times. you need to let the past lye where it is and move on. start by trying to make some friends at work . see anyone wants to go out and have a beer or just hang out with a bunch of other people. bood luck
2006-08-26 09:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by pmemommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't even fat! You are perfectly normal weight! The people who tease you and do stupid things are ridiculous and immature, don't pay any mind to them. Don't worry, you will find some real friends and a girl that will like you for who you are.
Don't get down on yourself and keep smiling!
2006-08-26 09:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a grudge on the past. And looking back it may have a hold on you more than you think.
Now think of this: If today someone came up to you and said he/she wanted to fix you up with someone would you think of it negatively? Like they just wanted to get a few laughs out of you. And so you decline?
Just open yourself up to other people. Be picky on who you let in, but not in it's entirety.
Good luck in the future.
2006-08-26 09:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by bakergrl5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the information that you gave, you don't sound "fat". If people don't want to give you a chance just because of your physical appearence, that's there loss and they aren't worth knowing in the first place.
2006-08-26 09:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋