Family & Relationships - 25 August 2006

ok my best friend is dating this guy and they are really in love and all but there is one thing that i was blind to know about him and now i do.... he is controlitive with my best friend like he wants her all to himself and he doesnt like her talk to her guys friend and me ME i am her friend and she is the only best friend i have and she moved to another school so it was hard for me to accpet the fact that she is moving and yeah and all i can do to keep in touch is email, phone, or online so yeah and if she like dont listen to him he would be mad and break up with her and all and she gave her heart to him and yeah... he wants her to delete all the guys in her buddy list and like last night she was just messing with the guys that have crushes on her and he got mad and yeah and my friend doesnt need another person to control her when her mom does that . its like he doesnt even trust her at all ,i want to tell her but i dont want her to be hurt or end the relationship they have so help!

2006-08-25 17:50:45 · 15 answers · asked by mrmach@sbcglobal.net 3 in Friends

I want a way that doesn't sound insulting or accusatory. These days you can never be too careful, and I want to have all my bases covered.

2006-08-25 17:49:41 · 11 answers · asked by Chosen245 1 in Singles & Dating

to be hot or to be cool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

2006-08-25 17:49:12 · 17 answers · asked by anne 2 in Friends

if you dont no i dont care ok

2006-08-25 17:48:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems to me that ordinary people are like work slaves with fully loaded machine guns, but they are dragging rocks along the path chosen by a few bossy people who only have sticks to beat us with.

For example: We can get multi-national corporations to change their policies where they cause inequality and abuse. We have the power of where to spend our hard-earned money!

Individually it doesn't amount to much, but if enough of people vote with their money, corporations and governments will listen, cause they depend on each other. Also voting through the ballot box for people with similar inclinations would also help.

What do u think?

2006-08-25 17:47:56 · 14 answers · asked by vincegill 3 in Family

why not be more original than a boring round or princess diamond solitaire that everybody else has? there are other beautiful gemstones, some worth more than diamonds. why does it have to mean the guy is being cheap or can't afford a diamond when it could be you just aren't that materalistic or want to express individuality. i'm not engaged just curious.

2006-08-25 17:47:45 · 17 answers · asked by Libby 1 in Weddings

so i go see beer fest and on the way home i drive by my girlfriends house and her exbf's car is there. now about a year ago i told him if he comes around im gonna hit him. their still kinda friends but i know he's still in love with her. i go in her house and their on opposite ends of the couch watching goodfellas.... so i left and shes txting me and i dunno what to do.... should i go back and hit him or should i break up with her or should i just sit here and get drunk.

girls what should i do and y the **** would she hang out with him.

guys should i hit him? dump her? both?

2006-08-25 17:47:34 · 9 answers · asked by Chris 2 2 in Singles & Dating

We have 1 remaining minor child living at home. It appeared as tho we had worked out all the details, and suddenly he states he can't pay me child support... (We looked at his monthly bills.. there is no money left).. we have always had separate accounts/bills.. i give him 1/2 house pmt.. that is it.. he pays rest of bills.. i dont make enough to leave without him paying me support.. but there is no money left.. what other options do i have.. i just can't stay here one more day.

2006-08-25 17:46:48 · 21 answers · asked by kris_mom_of_4_girls 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She hooked me up with Mr. Wrong almost a year ago. From another female friend, I found out this guy had a girlfriend. That was for my own good, and I was sorry for taking it the wrong way, at first, that this friend was hurting my feelings. As a last resort, I have had to talk to a family support services specialist.

2006-08-25 17:46:42 · 9 answers · asked by Angie M 4 in Friends

Is it so difficult to find someone who shares my interests, but understands my need for space? Someone who loves animals, has a good sense of humor without turning everything into a sex joke? Someone who won't put me on a pedestal, but will love me in spite of my flaws? They say there is someone for everyone, and that I'm still young enough to find him...but where is he?

2006-08-25 17:45:49 · 25 answers · asked by Mama23Girls 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 17:44:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend and i think i like this other guy and my boyfriend (steven) lives in ohio 30 min. away from here. and the kid i like ALOT (tyler) goes to the same high school as me. what do i do??

2006-08-25 17:43:57 · 15 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

I want wondering if any of you have GOOD conversation starters.... for an ex. haha. I mean, we went through a lot. And I still love him and made a mistake in breaking up with him, so I'm trying to "win" him back (so-to-speak). Any help will be appreciated.

2006-08-25 17:43:52 · 4 answers · asked by Freak M 1 in Singles & Dating

curious

2006-08-25 17:43:45 · 9 answers · asked by angel74 4 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I haven't been going out too long. We had an amazing relationship, he talked about marrying me, he says im his first love... He's a great guy, but lately he's been acting a little weird. He got a full time job, and we hardly see or talk to each other now, he sleeps a lot now... should I be worried, or just leave it alone hoping it'll get better. when I try to talk about it, he says it's just me, and he reassures me he loves me. I love him deeply, and believe him, but i know it's never to good to trust 100%

2006-08-25 17:42:43 · 15 answers · asked by Faby'07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

to make you understand the way I feel about you?

2006-08-25 17:42:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-08-25 17:42:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, since a lot of people are against spanking women (I understand that), what about a system of GBP's where if a girlfriend is obedient, and does things right (like not burning dinner or folding the clothes the right way or putting dishes in the dishwasher correctly, etc) she can be rewarded. Let's say if she gets 100 GBP's she can her choice of 20 dollars or the night off. However, if she is bad and does things like listen to bad music or talk to other guys without you around she loses GBP's. If she has negative GBP's she has to write a report on why it is important to do the right thing and listen and why she is sorry. Is this a good idea or is there something even better?

2006-08-25 17:41:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been with b/f for 2 years were bothe 23, I have had a couple girl friends but they came and went, my quesion is we have no social life out side our realtionship it drives me nuts cause its so rountine and at times boring, I want to go out meet others my b/f is fine with it just us too, he has no friends, and he;s ok with it I'm not, What would you do?? were young not we should be having fun not sitting home every sat night watching a movie

2006-08-25 17:41:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

has it ever came true!!

2006-08-25 17:41:43 · 5 answers · asked by angel74 4 in Singles & Dating

is that why its so hard for me to get a boyfriend. Im 5'11'' and I have this look thats like an amazon from the amazon. (hispanic mix) but is that intimidating? should I tone it down?

2006-08-25 17:41:26 · 21 answers · asked by hey_yourmothers 1 in Singles & Dating

Ahhh...so, after 4 1/2 years of dating, and nearly a year of looking for the perfect engagement ring for me, my boyfriend has found these two beautiful rings - and now we can't decide which one looks better! Since I am already wearing a simple-3-stone-diamond-gold ring, we want something that is going to be noticable as our NEW engagement ring. Something that you just can't help but to notice. But seeing as how we like both of them equally, we are in a bind! We decided to buy whichever one people think screams out 'We Are Getting Married!!!!'
Here are the two links...
Please, be honest!!!!
And if this helps, I wear both yellow and white gold..so it doesn't matter if its going to match my jewelry or not.
Thank you ahead of time...!

http://www.worldjewels.net/_e/diamond_en...

http://applesofgold.com/egr1035.html...

2006-08-25 17:41:07 · 6 answers · asked by Cherished_Bride 3 in Weddings

it seems that with my bf..it seems to be the opposite in roles. a girl is always there buggin him to turn the tv off and pay attention to her.

but in our case, its exactly the opposite. usually, he's always the one wantin me to be there when he falls asleep, he's alway askin to turn of the tv so we could have "quality" time...

all these things that in a way are cute, but then i dont understand?

why is it like this?

2006-08-25 17:40:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

?is it the feel or the look or do u not like them?

2006-08-25 17:40:10 · 12 answers · asked by halogrl007 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-25 17:39:06 · 8 answers · asked by Lindsay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 14 and for about a year I've been extremely resentful of my parents. They were too harsh on me cause I was somewhat sidetracked then. Today I'm the girl they've ever wanted. Excellent grades (even when I was sidetracked), don't get in trouble, like to take part in volunteering activities.They say they are proud of me and teachers praise them for their good job raising me, which makes me mad cause it's my merit, not theirs. Their only complaint is my resentful behavior. I talk with them only when necessary, act like a stranger. Avoid activities with them and only join them when a problem would arise. They tried to change my behavior, tried to talk with me, even suggested counseling. They say they were harsh cause they love me but I dont agree Now they decided to change my resentful behavior, dont want to accept it any more. They should respec me, I dont do anything wrong and though distant I'm polite Why dont they leave me alone, until I can move? They cant force me to love them

2006-08-25 17:39:01 · 11 answers · asked by Carla 1 in Family

well i woud want to know waht u all thing girls or
guys are the most mature personso and why
give a specific reason why not jsut bec but why do uting sooo well i woud love to know waht girls thign adn gujys things

2006-08-25 17:38:43 · 15 answers · asked by single714_luis 1 in Singles & Dating

ugh ok ill make this as short and sweet as posible, my friend REALLY likes this girl. But the problem is she likes me shes been trying to flirt. I also kinda like her, i am extrememly good friends with this guy and the last thing i want to do is make him my enemy, what should i do?

2006-08-25 17:38:38 · 8 answers · asked by aaronator 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been separated for three month married for 11 years. I left for mental abuse and hurtful words and time with my husband . it this natural to still have feel for the guy. he love material things and put there before me . he said I was a wife this was a marriage and he didn't marry to take care of me. we have no communication he never have time to spend with me. he put his furniture in storage go me and the children didn't sit on it. I was tired and move out. he moved around the complex to me in a one bed room not two for his kids with they visit him he is very self. why i wonder. he bought girls cell phone to talk to them so he won't have to conver with me and walkie talkie he gave them in my house. I feel bad because i think about the things he doone to me. and it hurt because it could have been prevented. I known when child support hit him , he he goiing to have a hiss fit. but i have to take care of my children. what advice came you give me to forget him.

2006-08-25 17:37:27 · 8 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if u r lindsey melton wht school did u go to in 6th grade

2006-08-25 17:37:11 · 1 answers · asked by Shaun M 1 in Friends