Okay, since a lot of people are against spanking women (I understand that), what about a system of GBP's where if a girlfriend is obedient, and does things right (like not burning dinner or folding the clothes the right way or putting dishes in the dishwasher correctly, etc) she can be rewarded. Let's say if she gets 100 GBP's she can her choice of 20 dollars or the night off. However, if she is bad and does things like listen to bad music or talk to other guys without you around she loses GBP's. If she has negative GBP's she has to write a report on why it is important to do the right thing and listen and why she is sorry. Is this a good idea or is there something even better?
2006-08-25 17:41:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay I am assuming your wife is okay with the whole domestic discipline thing so I am going to answer you question with an open mind. I think if the whole point system works then go for it but you shouldn't be so nit picky, like why should you care how she puts the dishes in the dish washer, you should be happy that you have a woman that is willing to do the dishes and you don't have to, or how she folds clothes as long as they are folded and people make mistakes and burn dinner every now and again, we are human and we will makes mistakes. Well okay let me suggest a better point system. If she gives you respect and loves you and isn't "disobedient" then she should get GBP but if shes being bitchy or mean then she gets the bad points. but honestly you shouldn't care how she does the housework as long as its getting done and not be so picky. If she does something out of line then spank her and be done with it. But don't worry about the little stuff in life, if she loves you and you love her then it shouldn't matter as much to you about how she cooks or does the dishes. You two just need to set up a list of rules and whats the consequences are for breaking a specific rule. I hope I helped!
2006-08-28 06:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by ProudSexySouthernGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that you would actually try something that absurd to a female. If you are truly looking for a mechanism to achieve
a level of obedience, I suggest this.
First and foremost it must be something that you will accept as well. If you wish to punish her, then you should also expect to be punished in the same way. This way you will always be cognizant of the level of control that each of you have is equal, and that will keep the punishment to a sane level.
Rewards could be treating her like the woman she is, with a nice romantic dinner and a relaxing massage without EXPECTING anything in return. This might just enhance your relationship, and allow you to keep a girlfriend
2006-08-27 07:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by slaveboy_43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Well...could you handle the exact same GBP system placed on you by your girlfriend? ... I didn't think so. You cannot ask someone else to comply with something that you wouldn't do yourself.
2) If this is what it takes for you to get along with your girl friend, then there issues that needs dealt with or you will soon be splitting up.
2006-08-25 17:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by John F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she is your girlfriend not a slave or a child. Is he allowed to withhold things from you when you act like a Jack@$$? I'm sure she doesn't burn you dinner on purpose and if she is cooking your dinner and folding your cloths, I would suggest you tell her thank you everytime and don't complain or she may quit all together and then poor baby you'd have to do it yourself.
2006-08-25 17:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow man, youve got to drag yourself out of the stone age and realize that most women on this planet are simply too good for you period, and that if one even dated you she should get infinite GBP's just for that.
2006-08-25 17:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by plainwolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell me your girlfriend is a purebread wolfhound! Your level of control is unbelievable. Keep it up and I am sure your girlfriend won't be a problem, she will be gone with the wind. Get over yourself and learn to listen to her. She is not your property. Who are you to impose your values on her?! Yes there is something better, it's called respect. Buy some if you need to, it didn't come in your package!
2006-08-25 17:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes provided ofcourse that in turn you get spanked everytime you do something wrong...By the way which century are you from you MCP
2006-08-25 17:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by RAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope she'd dump you. Look, that's stupid. Women today are powerful :-) they want POWER. They can have it. Women no longer date men who want them to be their slaves and submissive, etc. No offense. There are a lot of guys like you, and most of them are single. If you do meet a woman to you she is more than likely severly depressed and not happy with her :'(
2006-08-25 17:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is stupid, you do not own any woman or girl and you sound like you are on your way to becoming a control freak if not already.
2006-08-25 17:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, this sounds like a crashingly boring system. Stick with spanking - much more fun. (For both of you, with luck.)
2006-08-26 10:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋