I want a way that doesn't sound insulting or accusatory. These days you can never be too careful, and I want to have all my bases covered.
2006-08-25 17:49:41 · 11 answers · asked by Chosen245 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's smart thinking just tell the person how you feel like you just said. Tell them that it's not that you don't trust them but that if ya'll are going to take things to that level that you need to know for sure. If they don't like it then they don't deserve your goodies. They should be happy that you are that careful. More people should be like you. Don't give in if they don't agree. Always take care of yourself and remember that if they are not willing to take the test that you are not willing to die for them. Be careful and safe always. And even if your test come back negative still use protection.
2006-08-25 18:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not obsessive in any respect! A majority of sexually energetic human beings have an STD, myself blanketed. i became too embarrassed to ask my significant different to get examined until now we had intercourse, and now i'm interior the even worse challenge of having to tell destiny companions that I easily have one myself! circulate and get the Gardasil vaccine ASAP!!! The extreme risk HPV that motives cervical maximum cancers isn't able to be examined for in adult men, and there are certainly no warning signs, until your cervix will become cancerous. basically ask him, he could be information. I choose I had.
2016-09-30 00:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by haslinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure but its a VERY good idea to get it done so i think you should ask even if in hte end you do sound accusatory
2006-08-25 17:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by khghjhghu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hey, could you get an HIV test before we have sex? It's not that I don't trust you or anything, but I'm just trying to be careful."
2006-08-25 17:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by just me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it just the way you said it.
I told my ex boyfriend that there isn't anyone worth having sex with if I'm going to die from it...
2006-08-25 17:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell your partner straight out " i don't want to die and i don't want to have to worry about death, medication and crap like that". Cause i'm pretty sure that they don't want the same thing either.
This may seems rude but this is howi see it. sorry.
2006-08-25 17:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tomato 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you busy this Saturday, lets go get tested.
2006-08-25 17:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tricky aspect. look into on search engines like google. just that could help!
2014-11-05 17:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they truly love you then they would go get one done if you asked them to.
2006-08-25 17:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's better to be safe than sorry!
2006-08-25 17:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by giovanni1928 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋