been with b/f for 2 years were bothe 23, I have had a couple girl friends but they came and went, my quesion is we have no social life out side our realtionship it drives me nuts cause its so rountine and at times boring, I want to go out meet others my b/f is fine with it just us too, he has no friends, and he;s ok with it I'm not, What would you do?? were young not we should be having fun not sitting home every sat night watching a movie
2006-08-25 17:41:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF THIS WAS A REAL PROBLEM WITH YOU WHY WOULD YOU NOT BE HONEST WITH HIM BEFORE NOW, IT BEEN
2 YEARS, AND YOU HAVE NOT SPOKEN UP, TALK TO HIM
AND START GOING OUT AS A COUPLE START DOING THINGS TOGETHER, AND SEE HOW IT GOES FROM THERE.
2006-08-25 17:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you guys should spice things up a bit like when he comes home surprise him with a sexy outfit and a whip try new sex position and seduction make him want YOU tease him by doing a lap dance but with your clothes on give him the mental image kiss his face, neck and chest even suck his nipples while you are doing all this make sure you have a porno movie going on in the background it always drives men wild and make sure you kind of moan and make noises it makes guys think they are actually doing something right and if the whole sex thing is not your cup of tea then plan something once or twice a week were you and your b/f go out maybe to a club or a bar, movie theater, restaurant,bowling you know something that will get you 2 out of the house and if he is truly in love with you then he will give in and do it you can make a lot of new friends by going out to public places like that
well hope i could have been of some help to ya.............Melissa Cameron Park, CA
2006-08-25 18:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't he want to socialize? You need to find out. He may have a problem being around people or he could be in the beginniings of being a control freak wanting to be in control of as much of the situation as he can...and you can't control when you are socializing with others. Having someone hang around others might give them ideas or a different perspective. Control freaks are afraid of that...because they can't control that. If you push...does it start a big argument? Think long and hard before you devote too much of your life to a man like this. He is likely not going to change. Can you handle a life like this for years and years? Be careful and think it over.
2006-08-25 17:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/f? so, sounds like you found what your looking for. NOT. go to church, you'll meet people there too. oh you would have so much fun.
hey Hun, I'm going bowling, want to come, I want to live the movie tonight, not watch.
I heard forest gump was giving a shrimp tasting, sounds like more fun than everybody loves Raymond.
have fun, you'll have plenty of time for TV later. oh wait, forget that. we need you here. ask some more questions. please. It's Friday night. be happy!
2006-08-25 17:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out to the movies or join a bowling league
2006-08-25 18:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋