i have a boyfriend and i think i like this other guy and my boyfriend (steven) lives in ohio 30 min. away from here. and the kid i like ALOT (tyler) goes to the same high school as me. what do i do??
2006-08-25 17:43:57 · 15 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with the one at your school. Long distance relationships are hard for people sometimes and it sounds like you are young and should not be that serious. Good luck.
2006-08-25 17:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by sweethometexas2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a bit of a tricky situation. You really have to evalutate who you love more, and think of how you believe it will turn out in the long run. If you believ that you and Tyler are actually good together, go for Tyler. If you believe Steven and you have potential to go somewhere, then go for Steven. However, if he lives in Ohio, has always lived there, and there is no hope of him living near you, you might want to consider breaking up with Steven. Long distance relationships tend to fail miserably, as I have seen happen time and again, with disastrous results.
Good luck with your situation.
2006-08-26 00:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by aradona86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I don't want to sound like I'm telling you to dump your boyfriend or anything but take it from someone who wishes she had done things a little differently. Play the field while you are young, see what all is out there. Don't be deceitful or cruel in any way but just don't tie yourself down to one guy so quickly. There will be time for that later on.
2006-08-26 00:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by cutie~patootie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down and make a list of all the pros and cons of each guy. Think of everything you can about each guy, good and bad. Then when you are finished whichever one has the most things that you like about him then I would go for that guy. I had a friend that did this exact thing and she ended up getting married to the guy that she chose. Good luck and I hope it works out for you.
2006-08-26 00:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by jericalynnlillard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stay true to Steven. 30 minutes away isn't far. How would you like it if Steven behaved as you are doing?
2006-08-26 00:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a piece of paper write their names down in two different columns. Under each name write what you like about that guy. Then make another list for each and write the faults and dislikes. I hope this helps. Besides that just follow your heart honey!
2006-08-26 00:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by shauna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going to tell u this from experience. i have a bf and i also liked this other guy. so i did one simple thing that maybe every girl i know would do. just see if the other guy that u like likes u back or not. if so, then go with that guy, but is he doesn't than why go for him. just stick with your bf. or the other thing u can do is just choose which guy u like the most.
2006-08-26 00:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back and figure out what you want. You may not want either of them. Do what's best for you. These aren't the only two guys in the world.
2006-08-26 00:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should explore all your possibility's your young and have a whole list of guys to date and break up with don't get to serious about finding the right boy let him find you.until then just have fun
2006-08-26 00:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what one do you like the most...write there good habits on a piece of paper in a chart order.....who ever has the most is the best....
2006-08-26 00:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by Attitude Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋