Family & Relationships - 20 August 2006

i confirmed my father was cheating today. i dont wanna tell my mom right now cuz it will break her heart. she already going thru sum things. she really sick. cant hardly walk. sits at home all day. she just really sick. and telling her that her husband is having an affair will just add more stress to her. they been together for bot 25 yrs. i guess he thought he could get away with it cuz my mom would never suspect him of it. well, not in this case. i suspected sumthing was going on and i investigated. i dont wanna confront him cuz then he will try to cover it up before i tell my mom. i wanna talk to my older sis about it but then she may tell my mom and then everyone else will know. my friend said i shud **** wit him. like send him text messages without a callback number and do the same thing to is mistress. what yall think?

2006-08-20 13:19:27 · 23 answers · asked by softy06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Because of a long story, my boyfriend and I can only communicate over the phone. I tell him I love him all the time. But I want to say something to really make him smile. Can anyone throw some romantic lines out there for me?? Please be appropriate.

2006-08-20 13:18:42 · 9 answers · asked by emo_musician 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 13:18:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-20 13:18:25 · 12 answers · asked by golden_mermaid 4 in Singles & Dating

Would u date this girl---

age 13, five foot four, 115 pounds, runs a 7 min. mile, gets straight a's, is in 7th grade pre-algebra, dirty blonde shoulder length hair, tan all the time, barely any zits or anything, brown eyes, funny, nice, smart, sweet, and totally outgoing?? runs cross country, plays volleyball, runs track, loves to water and snow ski, was in the school play (as a hotbox dancer ;) jw cause thats my friend and she is a lil insecure, so i want to show her this to prove she's not ugly although she thinks she is!!!!!

2006-08-20 13:16:43 · 21 answers · asked by *HOTTIE* 1 in Singles & Dating

f u could, list all the reasons u know... tnx!

2006-08-20 13:16:36 · 13 answers · asked by cherry 3 in Friends

I'm a nice bloke, although i am not very nice looking. I am rich too. How do I find a wife?

2006-08-20 13:15:39 · 7 answers · asked by johnno K 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We've done everything to try to help her, she isn't ready so we stopped. Now her parents have blown their retirement supporting her and we can't convince them its 'enabling' her. (They pay for her house, bills, groceries) And now they are broke, my grandpa had to take a job and he is in no shape for that.

2006-08-20 13:14:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How can you tell if your boyfriend loves you? (at age 12, 13, 14, 15)
how do they act when they are in love?

2006-08-20 13:14:37 · 8 answers · asked by *HOTTIE* 1 in Singles & Dating

Today is 1st yr anniversary with my gf (or ex..). SHOULD I DO SOMETHING TODAY!? An email at least?

I have already posted my question few weeks ago. But today is THE DAY. I am struggling at this moment. Please click on my profile and read my Yahoo question "Ladies. HELP! How to make HER be my FRIEND again?"

Please advise.
I am really fighting inside my mind now.

2006-08-20 13:14:29 · 20 answers · asked by City hunter 3 in Singles & Dating

total fool!

2006-08-20 13:14:20 · 8 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

well if a kid dreams dreams about joing the army! IS IT THAT NORMAL!

2006-08-20 13:12:55 · 17 answers · asked by hunter 3 in Family

want the girl to ever call you? text you? email you? or should the guy make all the contact if he is available? should i just ignore him? what do guys want from a girl? what makes a girl desirable? undesirable? give me a clue here. this guy is just a friend, but would like to spend some time with him eventually.

2006-08-20 13:12:50 · 6 answers · asked by martin.bones 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i had sex with a girl..heheh repeatedly i have..well i told my bf that i was sorry and i didnt want to do it again..well he keeps buggin me to do it again and have him watch...WTF should i do?

2006-08-20 13:12:25 · 10 answers · asked by freesiahigh7814 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok everybody thank you so much for your advice but I must clarify something. I AM NOT CHEATING tempted butNOT CHEATING I do love my husband and if we had not had my son for 3 years it would be no problem that is wher ethe complication comes from and to the one who said walk out and don tlet anyone know ...already had that planned just waiting and biding my time

2006-08-20 13:11:36 · 2 answers · asked by cora7391 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-20 13:11:22 · 9 answers · asked by hello there 1 in Singles & Dating

I know I am.. I believe in "true friendship" I wish that I had a female friend to get to know.I am 23 years old and its very hard finding someone who will be honest and trustworthy. I know I can be a great friend to someone. The only thing that I am longing for is friendship right now.

Is there anyone else out there who is like myself?

2006-08-20 13:10:43 · 7 answers · asked by lrkarey 1 in Friends

my gf found out I cheated on her and after all the tears and stuff like that has been really cool towards me since then. she has started to talk to my ex gf about me which sucks and I am nervouse. my ex broke up with me 2 yrs ago and promised me she would get me back some day. I need to stop my gf from talking to my ex cause nothing good is going to come out of it, any advise?

2006-08-20 13:10:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 13:10:33 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The person you wanted to marry.How would you know they were the right one for you.and please keep your answers honest and real

2006-08-20 13:10:25 · 2 answers · asked by Cobra 5 in Singles & Dating

My divorce was final this last Thursday the 17th. I am so heartbroken.I left him, but didn't want to.I love this man with all my heart. He was mostly verbally, but sometimes physically abusive, and has gotten better over the 4yrs of marriage with the physical stuff, better with not calling me ugly names, but still verbally controlling on a daily basis.I met him in the 8th grade, he was my 1st love, but he never knew it, because I was sooo shy until we reconnected on classmates.com in 2002. Anyway, he tried multiple times since 6/29 to get back together with me. I kept rejecting him because I have left him twice before and I was blamed for leaving, etc.He thinks its my prob, that i'm just depressed.I think hes abusive and needs help.Will he ever get help and realize we belong together, or am I just delusional with my constant hope of a miracle?I have read lots on abusers that they don't realize what they are doing. Is there ANY HOPE? Pls don't recommend joint counseling. Been there.Thks

2006-08-20 13:09:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I thought church was for getting into heaven and not for meeting people.

2006-08-20 13:09:45 · 18 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 13:09:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am not happy with my marriage for seven years already but yet I felt constraint to stay in this marriage for the sake of my kids and financial consequences of divorce. I am thinking of asking for separation when the kids are older (ten years from now, by then my girls will be 17). At the same time I felt it is not fair to my wife and myself to ask for separation that late. By that time she will be 53, I will be 52. It may be hard for us to find another soul mate since we both are older.


So my questions are:

Do man and woman really need each other? Are we bound to have a soul mate. If after divorce, I fall in love with another lady and then end up with another unhappy marriage. Isn’t that really sad. Do man and woman really need each other?

2006-08-20 13:08:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I both work full-time, we do not have children. We are both in our early 20's and both have messy habits. Even though are schedules are pretty much the same, I feel like all of the cleaning, cooking, finances and anything else that doesn't involve fun, gets put on me. Anytime I ask him to help, he either A. Says im nagging and he just wants to relax. B. Says he'll do it and 2 months later it still isn't done. I also go to school at night, it is impossible for me to do everything by myself. How do you get your significant other to do their part?

2006-08-20 13:07:55 · 22 answers · asked by bittersweet_symphon_y 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just read an online article entitled, "Tips for making chit chat on a first date". A 37 year old woman from Ohio had written in wanting to know what were some good things to talk about on a first date. As it turns out, there was a whole page of responses, and along with each response there was a photo of the person who had posted it. Amazingly, every one of these people were very attractive people. There wasn't an average or below average looking person in the group. So, what that does that tell you? It tells me that unless you're a good looking man or a beautiful woman, your chances of making a good first impression are slim and none. And you know what they say about "a good first impression". Also, it tells me that we, as a society, are obssesed with the outer appearance of others and care little about what's inside another person's heart. Just look at the magazines in the stores and you'll see what I'm talking about. Agree or disagree?

2006-08-20 13:07:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 13:07:30 · 8 answers · asked by stephanieishappy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

cause first day of school tomorow n i need to know..lol

2006-08-20 13:05:19 · 11 answers · asked by ClickSubscribe 3 in Singles & Dating

Be honest and truthful,also add why it was so long.

2006-08-20 13:05:10 · 27 answers · asked by Cobra 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i am having problems with my dad. lately i find it hard to do what he tells me to do. i don't like it because he stopped buying me stuff and it puts a bridge between our relationship. if someone can plase coach me on how to listen better i'd really appreciate it.

2006-08-20 13:03:57 · 15 answers · asked by Lil Z 1 in Family