Today is 1st yr anniversary with my gf (or ex..). SHOULD I DO SOMETHING TODAY!? An email at least?
I have already posted my question few weeks ago. But today is THE DAY. I am struggling at this moment. Please click on my profile and read my Yahoo question "Ladies. HELP! How to make HER be my FRIEND again?"
Please advise.
I am really fighting inside my mind now.
2006-08-20 13:14:29 · 20 answers · asked by City hunter 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say that sending your ex something today is so important to you and this is 1st year anniversary with the ex that you are no longer with.
If she's your ex then why would you even want to send her anything at all?
You have a life and you should be thinking about it and not dwelling on the past. You're young enough to move on and to put your ex in your past and leave her there for good.
Has she made any kind of gesture to indicate that she's even thinking of you and the 1st year anniversary?
Why oh why are you putting yourself through all this anyway?
If she hasn't given you any signs of wanting a friendship with you then please just let it go and put your thoughts of her to rest cause if she hasn't given any signs of wanting any kind of a friendship with you by now she never will.
Take care and please forget about her and forget about the 1st year anniversary now before you harm yourself and your mind worse then you already have.
2006-08-20 13:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still love her? Does she have a restraining order against you? If you still love her and think there is hope for your relationship, you could either send her flowers with a note that says how much your relationship with her meant to you. If you did something to cause the break-up, you should apologize and change. But really...try sending her a nice e-mail or take her a handwritten letter, as those are much nicer. If you guys had a song, etc. or a flower you gave her or you can get a napkin from the place you first ate on a date with her and can wrap a single red rose in it, or something that might be nice. Good luck! But if she honestly wants you to leave her alone, prove to her that you're mature enough and just wait. If it's meant to be, it will come back around.
2006-08-20 20:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if this will help you or not but we allways want to be frinds with our exs yes get her something nice butdont over do it maybe a braclet or a pair of earrings that is not very expense and pick out a card that fits her personality a joke card of sorts. and in the card tell her the truth about how you feel good luck
2006-08-20 20:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u need to let her go. It seems like she don't want u no more but u can't accept that. U need to let her go. And do your own thing. U will be okay. Get with a group or friends and do sumthing. Don't talk about your ex. or bring her name up. Go have a good time with your friends without bring up your ex..:)
2006-08-20 20:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were already friends with her, then it would be okay to just call and ask how her day went, and see if it would get brought up in ya'lls conversation. But since ya'll aren't then I wouldn't mess with it at all you don't want to seem like a stalker or something to her.
2006-08-20 20:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa...Ok, I read your whole story from the last time you posted this, and my advice is DON'T! I have been in a situation much like this before (on the girl's side) and I think you would just end up freaking her out and making her angry.
2006-08-20 20:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda Lynne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her contact you, if she's your ex, then her go...being friends with an ex takes a long time...give it time and if you're meant to be friends you will be, the more pressure you put on her the more she will run away from you.
2006-08-20 20:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman...send her a very nice email for the memory of today.
Best wishes!
2006-08-20 20:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by day by day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should definitely do something just to show her you havent forgotten i didnt read ur other post but from the title im guessin u wanna b friends with her (duh lol) so make sure she knows u remembered its not how u do it thats important just so long as she knows if she thinks u forgot shell probably be mad about it
2006-08-20 20:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by purple_ronnie_always 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok plan on an open day not today! go to a romantic place!
2006-08-20 20:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋