Family & Relationships - 17 August 2006

This could be great for asking mature serious questions. There seem to be more questions from the bored to see how funny they think they are. Just wondered if there were others who find it useful but at the same time irritated by the irrevelant questions from those who are bored?

2006-08-17 14:43:55 · 5 answers · asked by keepingthefaith 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-17 14:43:34 · 1 answers · asked by shinobi 2 in Friends

I was talking to this guy for about 2 months and i really started to like him but when i really got to know him he wasnt my type at all meaning he has not job no car and hes 20 years and really ghetto acting but im just still attracted to him i dont know why... i called it off with him about 2 weeks ago and i can not stop thinkin about him til this day i guess im just attracted to the bad boys cause thats what he is..he does drugs, drinks alot..... when we were together he would call me through out the week and disappear on weekends?? then call me on monday?. i know he really likes me because when i try to leave he'll hold me back or cry and i fall for that sh** cause its sad hes like all manly and ghetto and only cries for me??..........now after 2 weeks he sent me a message on myspace saying he misses me so i called him my mistake and come to find out he has a cell phone and hes getting money from where im thinkin his new boyfriend? but what does he want from me?? does anyone get me?

2006-08-17 14:43:03 · 2 answers · asked by Gabriel 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was just friends with this girl, I confessed my love for her but didn't ask her to be my girlfriend because I thought of taking it slow. After a few months, she told me she's giving another guy a chance. I stopped talking to her since then and 3 months later, she begged me to communicate with her again because that guy did not love her. We are together now but in the back of my mind I just want to date another girl for 3 months to even the score.

2006-08-17 14:42:56 · 43 answers · asked by Cool Guy 2 in Singles & Dating

alot of chick flicks =[) most of them are funny and interisting

P.S. i'm not looking for dates. i just gotta say it

2006-08-17 14:42:45 · 11 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

i need to change..

the guy im in love with..he said i can earn his love..so i need to be more self confindent..and stop cutting myself..and be less shy..i will change fro him..ive liked him for like 2 years...

How can i be self confident? i need to think im pretty and stuff...but i dont think i am..

I have been cutting for like 1 year now...the past month ive been trying to stop..like i only cut once or twise a week..but i cut deeper like i wont stop bleeding for 2 hours..and i cant stop cutting..i need help...how do i stop?

I need to be less shy..and more like out there..and i need tips on kissing...HELP?!?!

you can im me if you want.=]

2006-08-17 14:41:33 · 12 answers · asked by scared by myselfXxXx 2 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy have been seeing each other for a month in a half he works a busy schedule 15-20 hours a day (Drill Instructor) so we see other every once in a while and work on the same marine base so we are doing okay he is always telling me how he likes me and is happy being near me on his day off and how he will always make time for me when he's not busy so last night i wrote him a text message to his cell phone and I told him how i liked him and how nice and respectful he is to me but he hasn't called or wrote back i understand he is busy but i'm also feeling like i am being too pushy......was I wrong for saying how I feel ? i don't want to run him away

2006-08-17 14:40:58 · 25 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

I had in love this guy for 3month or 4months, i felt i want to tell my feels to him. But i am so afraid he doesn't love me or like me. Cuz his older then me by 7 years and i am only 19. I work the same job as him and so on his my friend too, I love him & care for him alot. But in the end he know's that i admire him. But why doesn't he tell me he admire's me too? does he felt so nervous or shy? to say it out. I know i felt rush to love now i am so lonely. I didn't hungout a guy since i was 13years old. ='(

2006-08-17 14:40:28 · 6 answers · asked by xDi0rAngelx 1 in Friends

hes 14 and im 12...im scared that if i tell her she will say no..so how do i tell her?should i tell her?

2006-08-17 14:39:58 · 15 answers · asked by sophia_mungaray 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend was a virgin. and well we had sex for the first time a couple weeks ago and he looked at me like he didnt like it. but he did. i just dont know why he made that face it made me feel bad

2006-08-17 14:39:58 · 42 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

Two days ago, I found out that my girlfriend is having an affair with another woman. Today I caught her getting oral from the neighbor's doberman, and a friend of mine told me that he saw her the other day riding a horse....upside down. Tonight she told me that she no longer wants to have underwater sex with me.
Should I be concerned? Is the romance over?
Does anyone here actually believe the load of crap I just wrote?

2006-08-17 14:39:38 · 10 answers · asked by opjames 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 14:39:35 · 8 answers · asked by missjay3778 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my grandma made this conversational joke to me. before i left at a birthday part last night. she said i bet you will go to sleep in the car on the way home i said no i never get tired until real late. when i was getting ready to go in the car i said im going to party until 3 clock wich was a joke i normally go to bed at 1:30 exept for weekends then its 3. its still summer. she said you better go to bed before 3 clock. i got so stressed i talk to my parent they told me she was just having fun with me and that i shouldint have tooken this seriouley and i have to let it go. and my mom told me that you can stay up as late as you want your grandma dosent own you. should i let this go and forgive her please know i respect her and love her. i need help can i move on or stress more. also im 15 years old.

2006-08-17 14:38:23 · 15 answers · asked by mayo_girl_2006 2 in Family

My boyfriend is staying w/me and lately talks about moving somewhere else. When I say; "what about us?", he's like I'll get settled then you can come." He's on his way in the car to this place and in a phone conversation - he say,"I can't be w/someone that's up&down, I love your spirit for life and I love you but I never know what you'll b like" Blah, blah. Then I get a text msg saying he'd like me to come 4 the wknd. I sent an email saying that since he doesn't seem to want to b w/me - I am going to start thinking about myself, & he writes back, "I guess I'm on my own, you don't seem to want to be w/me- I wish you would reconsider! After the long talk on the phone at how he can't be w/someone like me etc, then he is asking me up for the weekend!! What gives? And NO he is not a young guy!!
I want to write back and say HEEEllllooo?R U Nuts or what? I want some advise before I answer...

2006-08-17 14:37:55 · 22 answers · asked by gandergirl81 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know why I keep messing up with him. It only happens when I am drinking, which I am now realizing. Sometimes when I drink I am fine! But, if there is something on my mind I show out. It may be too late for us. I love him so much though so I hope not! And he is good to me! And, he is tired of the drama. He is military and he doesn't sweat the small ****. I don't cheat on him I just show my *** and be mean to him. Why? And how can I prevent divorce?

2006-08-17 14:37:19 · 9 answers · asked by boop_boop3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so here's the deal:
I've been married for 6 years. (got married when I was 43)
I trust my husband... our finances are good and we have no children. (his 3rd marriage, my 1st)

He's very passive aggressive. He hasn't been interested in any type of intimacy for about 4 years. He's not gay, he's not having an affair and he's not surfing for porn. Really.
He's just... not interested.

He can be emotionally abusive. Last night, we went to dinner and I ordered steamed mussels. When I found some that weren't completely open, I asked the waiter if it was ok to eat them.

My husband scowled and said, "You shouldn't order something you don't know how to eat." It's just a small example of everyday things that happen.

I've got a good job and a good salary.
There are many good things about this guy... but I don't feel very cherished or appreciated.

Am I too picky? Doesn't every couple have "stuff?"
I feel very lost and would appreciate your thoughts.

2006-08-17 14:37:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its scary sometimes but i love it

it makes me melt :)

2006-08-17 14:36:42 · 29 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

if your a guy that like to put on thong panties. would u condider him a fag? i think that would make u a fag. my friend said it only means your a freak

2006-08-17 14:36:32 · 6 answers · asked by Priesd D 2 in Singles & Dating

now....i see there is light,thin hair coming in on his chest in the middle and on his niples. my dad has hair all over his chest and stomach. will it grow on my stomach. but my dads hair is long dark and bushy. will this happen to me too? im 9. if it does how long till it starts to happen to me?

2006-08-17 14:35:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-17 14:34:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a teen daughter who has been throwing her papers away since she has been in the 5th grade. she fakes sick so she can come home. We have been grounding her don't work makeing her stay in her room. We have tryed everything even her councler don't know what to do. She is know in 9th grade and the first day of school she went to the nurse 4 or 5X thats just 1 day. If any body has Idea how to help me please let me know. she throws her homework away and the papers she does in school.

2006-08-17 14:34:42 · 14 answers · asked by hotcandysmacker 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just told a girl that i like her, and she responded by saying that she doesn't feel like she should be in a relationship right now. do you all think that that's what she really means? or is she just trying to tell me that she's really not interested?

2006-08-17 14:34:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work with this girl Betty she's 35 and I'm 20 but i'm above her cause i'm her shift supervisor. She's really nice to me she takes me to work in the morning and i give her 25 dollers a week (cause we dont have two car's right now and my bf needs the car cause we work different work scheduals) well she takes me to work everyday 5 days a week which isnt out of the way its just right down the road from her house. Well she's always gripping about everyone we work with and always saying bad stuff about everyone and i usually just blow it off or laugh it off you know? cause everyone has bad bad days and thats understandable. we all do. Well i was off work today and one of the other girls from work called me and told me that *Betty* was up there bad mouthing me to everyone! She even told me that *Betty* had went to our district manager and told him i was lazy at work and didnt do anything. She had to do everything.

2006-08-17 14:34:31 · 12 answers · asked by cutenwild1769 5 in Friends

My understanding is that a girl wants alot of attention (yes?). Giving the girl attention will help make her become attracted to you. Let's say you start dating, at this point would it be better to continue giving her attention, or to start taking it away and start making her work alittle for it? If so, then how much is too much?

Also I understand that girls like an adventurous guy. What would "adventurous" qualify as? Like actually going out on trips/etc., or like just a personality that is adventurous and open-minded

2006-08-17 14:34:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 14:33:31 · 12 answers · asked by queen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl at camp. She was 13 & I was 13. she liked me i liked her. but mylacky tried to ask her out. i was pissed. she asked me if i would be ok if she went out with him. i said no. later she gave me notes and her e-mail address. i tried to mail her. but it was wrong. she lives a little bit close. what do you think is going on?

2006-08-17 14:32:57 · 37 answers · asked by GJA 2 in Singles & Dating

Pall Malls unfiltered, she was hard core..:)

2006-08-17 14:32:30 · 9 answers · asked by tamilynn 3 in Family

I mean all these anti smokers, and crying about lung cancer and smoking sucks, well ya know they dont know that the enjoyment we get from smoking is worth it...so go cry to someone who cares

2006-08-17 14:31:54 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what im saying is that whereever you are im not looking but i am sending out special feelings for you can you triangle- ate and find me irresistable? you all know who im talking too, the real yellow person.

2006-08-17 14:30:56 · 5 answers · asked by stoppedinmytracksandlovingityepp 1 in Singles & Dating

For the past month I have been awakening to my husband jerking his penis all through the night. When he thinks I've gone to sleep, he'll break away from me and scoot all the way to his side, pull down his pants and go to town. When I wake up or open my eyes, he stops. This happens all through the night every night. Sometimes I wake up and he's right next to me seemingly making gestures toward me as he's doing this. If he wanted to do something, all he would need to do is come over to me. When it first started happening I woke up and tried to respond because I thought he was initiating something, but he just turned over and pretended to be sleeping. This has even happened on nights that we've already had sex. I have called him on this the past three nights and even grabbed his hand when he was doing it once when he thought I was asleep. He angrily denies doing this. What is the problem here? I feel like this is not normal and that he's thinking about someone else when he's doing this.

2006-08-17 14:29:43 · 29 answers · asked by Tolina 1 in Marriage & Divorce