why when i have sex with my boyfriend he makes a face like he doesnt like it?

Question

my boyfriend was a virgin. and well we had sex for the first time a couple weeks ago and he looked at me like he didnt like it. but he did. i just dont know why he made that face it made me feel bad

Answer 1

everyone has different sex faces. it's not a bad thing.

Answer 2

Just wait until he makes the face and a noise that sounds like he's in pain at the same time.

It's excruciating pleasure. LOL. This is the truth so don't pay attention to the ignorant answers above, they are from immature children. If you don't believe me, ask the little old lady who does the sex talk show on tv.

Also ignore the answers that say maybe he doesn't like you or he's gay. First of all he likes you or he wouldn't have let you be his first, secondly if he was gay, he wouldn't have let you be his first.

Answer 3

Well, like you said, he was a virgin. The look on his face was the reaction to an intense feeling that he had never felt before. Look at it from a different viewpoint, if that helps: If you've never tasted a lemon before, and you just bite a huge chunk out of it, you're going to have an intense reaction. I'm not saying his experience went sour, pun intended, just trying to make a comparison.

Answer 4

Dont worry about those wicked answers, disregard them. Think about those who really tried to answer your question. dont be worried about the face. it was his first time. does not mean he did not like it. First times always awkward. check out his face the next time and time after that if you realise its the same then maybe thats his happy face. But more so go with the vibe your getting from him and encourage him to talk during the act. then you'll know for sure

Answer 5

Maybe you didn't know how to handle a virgin dude in the first place....if you are experienced enough you should have used that wisdom to rock his world the way it was supposed to be ...your boyfriend is just beign plain honest ...on the other hand he is an ungrateful dawg...did you ask him why he made that face?

Answer 6

Talk to him about it. The sensation that came with having the orgasm could have been overwhelming for him and caused him to make that face. It is not healthy to assume in relationships because often times one ends up worrying over something that the other person is totally unaware of. I think maybe you have misinterpreted his facial expression, but the best way to know for sure is to ask him.

Answer 7

The first time is always awkward so I wouldnt worry about how his face was at that time. Practice makes perfect, you should feel comfortable enough in your relationship to discuss what your likes and dislikes are in and out of bed and then you guys to work towards doing things that are mutually satisfying to both parties.

Answer 8

Pleasure and pain run very close together sometimes. He is not the only one to make a strange face during sex, believe me. With practice, he'll relax. Hope you are being safe!!

Answer 9

well if he was a virgin, it was new to him and it was a different feeling, and guys make funny faces when they are about the release themselves,

when i was younger i asked my ex- and he told me when they first start doing it as a virgin it would hurt the first few times until they get used to it.

but why don't you ask your boyfriend why he made the face, and see what he says, don't sweat it, just ask him.

Answer 10

When having sex if we all had a mirror in front of us we would all probably be embarrassed of our expressions he was probably not aware he even did it or something could have hurt him for a second. When a guy releases himself his expression are of relief and he should be able to just let lose and not worry what he looks like. If he does not like it you will know it. Be safe.