ok my grandma made this conversational joke to me. before i left at a birthday part last night. she said i bet you will go to sleep in the car on the way home i said no i never get tired until real late. when i was getting ready to go in the car i said im going to party until 3 clock wich was a joke i normally go to bed at 1:30 exept for weekends then its 3. its still summer. she said you better go to bed before 3 clock. i got so stressed i talk to my parent they told me she was just having fun with me and that i shouldint have tooken this seriouley and i have to let it go. and my mom told me that you can stay up as late as you want your grandma dosent own you. should i let this go and forgive her please know i respect her and love her. i need help can i move on or stress more. also im 15 years old.
2006-08-17 14:38:23 · 15 answers · asked by mayo_girl_2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't stress about it! I'm sure your grandma meant it as a joke, and if your parents say she did, then you should probably believe them. Don't take it seriously, and really, even if she was serious, what is your grandma gonna do if you don't do it?
2006-08-17 14:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by babyrooster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My grandma lectures me a lot. I just ignore her and go uh huh. Forgive her and just ignore her the next time she does it. The worst thing she's said was because I have this friend that is from kindergarden and I'm in 6th grade. So my mom called her and my grandma wanted to talk to me. My mom said I was at my friends house and she freaked out. She said I was too young. Later she called back and lectured me. Nothing too bad.
2006-08-17 21:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Yellow :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your grandma was kidding around with you, just like your parents said. Relax and forget about the conversation -- she loves you! If it continues to eat away at you then very nicely tell her that what she said bothered you and she'll let you know whether or not she was kidding. Being 15 is TOUGH but don't let something like this eat away at you
2006-08-17 21:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by jennw33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My god grow up what on earth are you so stressed about? What is the problem? Get a life, and ask a real question. Theres people like me out there that have never met my grand parents and i would do anything to of been given the chance. Be thankful you have her around and stop asking stupid questions.
2006-08-17 21:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read your question 3 times and I still don't understand what she said that was so bad to get you mad at her. Try not being so sensitive. You'll learn to let things roll off your back, when you grow up, because people are going to say things alot worse than that to you during your lifetime.
2006-08-17 21:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by Someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your grandma is right and you should listen to her. you shouldnt even be upset with her and she should not need your forgiveness. be nice to her while you have her and if you respect her you will listen to her. you are staying up too late for a 15 year old- I know you dont want to hear that since you have been allowed to do it, but it's true. your grandma is trying to look out for your health since you are not.
2006-08-17 21:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by bonbon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on i mean i never really had a situation like this but you know the only reason why she tells you this because she loves you. Also if it was a joke thing laugh it off. or you could tell her if she was joking.
2006-08-17 21:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by alextacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go grandmas are just like that sometimes you gotta learn to not sweat the small stuff....especially with family because in the end thats all you got........
2006-08-17 21:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats one of those things you've got to learn to blow off and not let it bother you. It sounds like she was joking.
2006-08-17 21:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by vamp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you probably shouldn't have taken it seriously. You're mom's right, your grandma doesn't own you, and you should probably just tell her that she hurt your feelings or bothered you or whatever, so that way she won't do it again.
2006-08-17 21:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋