I was talking to this guy for about 2 months and i really started to like him but when i really got to know him he wasnt my type at all meaning he has not job no car and hes 20 years and really ghetto acting but im just still attracted to him i dont know why... i called it off with him about 2 weeks ago and i can not stop thinkin about him til this day i guess im just attracted to the bad boys cause thats what he is..he does drugs, drinks alot..... when we were together he would call me through out the week and disappear on weekends?? then call me on monday?. i know he really likes me because when i try to leave he'll hold me back or cry and i fall for that sh** cause its sad hes like all manly and ghetto and only cries for me??..........now after 2 weeks he sent me a message on myspace saying he misses me so i called him my mistake and come to find out he has a cell phone and hes getting money from where im thinkin his new boyfriend? but what does he want from me?? does anyone get me?
2006-08-17 14:43:03 · 2 answers · asked by Gabriel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah another things is that when we are together its perfect we dont argue fight or anything and he doesnt ask me for anything so really hes not using me...i still like him why i have no idea i get excited when he calls and look at my phone to see if i missed his call normally im not like this at all....i dont know what hes done to me i never ever ever have problems calling if off with guys or just stop talking to them out of the blue for the simple fact that they just got on my nerves?? whats effin wrong with meeeeeeeeee
2006-08-17 15:00:06 · update #1
oh yeah thanks everyone for taking the time to read it and give me your advice i really appreciate it once again Thank You All :-)
2006-08-17 15:20:22 · update #2
Maybe you should listen to yourself. Do you like being used?
Stop calling him. Stop thinking about him. Date others. Do whatever you need too but stop letting yourself think that this guy is anything but bad news.
Do you want to be hurt? Do you like being treated like the "affair"?
You are not first in his life. You may not be second.
Just move on...be smart. Go to a bar and find a distraction. Just forget him or regret it later.
2006-08-17 14:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your angry. You should be. This guy is not treating you well. He has not been honest to you, and he probably has been cheating, too. You have to let go of this relationship before it gets any worse. He is a bad influence to you with all his vices. You seem to be a nice person and I really think you deserve someone better. A good relationship is something that inspires you to be a better person, and he does not do that. Break it up with him before it's too late.
2006-08-17 15:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋