Family & Relationships - 14 August 2006

I asked a girl I have been digging for a long time to go watch a concert with me. She said "I don't know?". So since she gave me a mixed signal (is it mixed?) I offered her my number instead of asking for hers so that way I won't get burned right in front of her. Do you think it is a suave hitchy move to do or would you have rather asked her number right away? And do you think she'll call?

2006-08-14 04:06:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

picking friends who are decietful, bf that have the same distasteful commonalities, ...what is it that creates these habits? Why do we at times feel stuck in a rewind zone...where you sit thinking one day...HERE WE GO AGAIN! THIS FEELS UNCOMFORTABLY COMMON?

2006-08-14 04:06:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I live far away from my hometown where my crush lives. I'm planning to go back soon and tell her that I really like her. What kind of gift should I give to her before I tell? Not something really expensive or too cheap. NOT something that'll express how I feel either. Help me out?

2006-08-14 04:04:26 · 19 answers · asked by Faez 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfriend a whole lot but recently she decided to not go to work and dissappeared for a day and a half ( not the first time either )... Thus I didn't know where she was and she got fired! She can't keep a job, we just moved into a nice Condo and only has payed the deposit..... She is draining me, not only my money but mentally as well, I'm beginning to hate her... I need to kick her out, my feelings keep getting in the way though, it's like I don't have the guts because I love her.. but she needs to go what should I do? WE ARE BOTH ON THE LEASE

2006-08-14 04:03:54 · 14 answers · asked by osyrusct 1 in Singles & Dating

I've recently separted from my wife for something I have done (won't take much to figure out what) but anyway I need her back and I for the first time I don't know what to do or where to start. Open to all suggestions. please help, lost in the city.

2006-08-14 04:03:29 · 12 answers · asked by matchbox 78 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was once a high society call girl. I quit and moved to another city got married and now have kids. My husband has no idea of this and would divorce me in a heartbeat if he ever knew. One of my old clients found me and he has pictures of him and I having sex. he has threatened to show them to my husband. If I don't meet him for and afternoon of sex. What should I do.

2006-08-14 04:03:26 · 25 answers · asked by Froggy_45 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do it annoy you when your girlfriend asks you not to go out on the town? and kicks uo a big fuss everytime you try mention you going out, even if you know its cos your girl do not trust you? do it make you mad and want to go out even more, or do you start to wonder about your girlfriend?

2006-08-14 04:03:08 · 6 answers · asked by Pinkywinky 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a former youth minister that lost my job defending allegations that my wife was cheating on me and using drugs. For the past two years she has never been home 7 nights in a row, and sometimes was gone 4 days a week, and when i begged her to come home, she wouldn't. She spent $200-$400 a week and her cell bills were outrageous. I went into massive debt trying to work things out and now im spent emotionally, financially, and mentally. Now that i finally put my foot down, and after being sepearated 4 weeks, she wants to come home and says she will change. I know what I think i have to do, but am concerned that maybe she really wants to change and be with me. She doesn't make much money, has nowhere to go, and clearly needs professional help. I want to help her, but she has to love herself. I basically know she cheated at least emotionally, and i think she was using drugs. My question is do i give it one more try on my terms? Should I just stick to my guns? Let me know what you think.

2006-08-14 04:02:49 · 35 answers · asked by confused male 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-14 04:02:12 · 2 answers · asked by raj the secret 2 in Friends

Do you honestly think it is better to be friends first?

2006-08-14 04:02:07 · 7 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

if i love a girl that belongs to another caste , then how can i make it easier to get married with that particular girl or how can i got her to make my love successful? It is clear that both of us loves with each other deeply. Both of us resides in a semi-urban area , basically where most of peoples sre superstitious.

2006-08-14 04:01:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm a 21 year old female with a 4 year old son. I think I'm a pretty girl. The thing is I've been single for 3 years. I don't know whats wrong with me. I used to have friends with benefits, but I've stop that. I'm tired of being just a **** buddy. I want more than just sex. I want a relationship. Guys still call me after weeks of not responding back to them, but I know they just want sex. At first I liked being single, but know I want to be loved, but not just physically. I just want to know when will I find the one guy who will respect me and love me?Does Faith play a part in love?

2006-08-14 04:01:11 · 13 answers · asked by ire_nene21 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my kids father doesnt pay child support,and he has a criminal backround that is pages long, as of now he has warrants out for his arrest, and the girl he lives with he beat the sh*t out of which landed him 3 years of probation that he violated 3 times and thats why their is a warrant, Now the girl he is with(the one he beat up) there was a no contact order put in by the couurt system which they ignore and live together. He is demanding to see his kids and I personaly feel his living situation and the trouble he is in wouldnt be in the best intrest of the kids, His girlfriend gets involved by running her mouth to me and defending this criminal boyfriend of hers. What should I do as far as my children are concerned? Do I let them see their dad considering he will probably go to jail at anytime or do I keep them away from him and the psycho girlfriend?

2006-08-14 04:00:39 · 17 answers · asked by italianprincess_fl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-14 03:59:11 · 7 answers · asked by die romantic 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

She says a lot of words but they are mostly not understandable. The words that she does say are not clearly pronounced.

2006-08-14 03:58:24 · 12 answers · asked by pattihoffman7 1 in Family

The other night I chilled with my son's father. Just enjoying some company. When he left I sent him a text message that said " I love you forever. Not only for sex. Thank you for spending time with me, I needed that. Love Always Wifey." Nothing happened no sex or kissing! But my boyfriend went through my phone and found that text message. I told him nothing happen. He said OK but still seemed pissed. I really love my boyfriend and want to spend my life with him, not my son's father. What can I do to fix it. I never want him to be hurt or upset. But why was he going through my phone?

2006-08-14 03:58:11 · 10 answers · asked by Blondie 3 in Singles & Dating

IM me @ brittany_leeper@yahoo.com or miznewboodee@yahoo.com

2006-08-14 03:57:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was just wonering if boys get serious in college?

2006-08-14 03:57:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i had been in a relationship for two yrs...have broken up now for a month now. im still a bit crushed and am not really thinking im ready to date yet. i dont think i could give a lady what she would need at this point. but... i am a man still. i have desires of course. im not interested in one night stands at all! im trying hard to be a good man. the question is...should i look into a "friend"..or should i just wait till im ready to date? any help would be appreciated. just seeing what the women think i should do

2006-08-14 03:56:45 · 18 answers · asked by pencilnbrush 6 in Singles & Dating

this is singles and dating right?

2006-08-14 03:56:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thanks Everyone for your answers :-)

2006-08-14 03:56:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know he has an attitude problem and we have worked on this but every response he give to simple questions sound like he is angry at me or of course the attitude of "how stupid are you?" I probably am not as in tune to what is going on as I could be but i work two jobs and sometines i have to ask things

2006-08-14 03:56:04 · 15 answers · asked by memorris900 5 in Family

shaved d1ck or natural?

2006-08-14 03:55:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This woman is my aunt.She lost her husband two years ago.Her daughters did every thing to help her.After living one year with them she went to live with her son ,saying that my real home is my son's home and it was a mistake to live with daughters. Now she has same problems in her son's home.Not only that but she is hurting my cousins with her sharp words and uncooprating behaviour.Now she say that she wants to live alone at the age of 66 earning no money.Only a little pension.My cousin is very stressed.What should he do?

2006-08-14 03:55:40 · 10 answers · asked by uncoolmom 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

do girls go for the bad guys cuz we make the first move and the shy guys don't and wait for the girls to make the first move. and girls what in ur mind make us bad boys bad, what exactly r we ment to do to u or act like

2006-08-14 03:55:30 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 03:55:20 · 41 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 03:55:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find oriental women to be most beautiful and exciting.It is dificult to find them when I go out,but find them every where when I'm not looking for them. I don't like approaching them on the street for in these days approaching some woman on the street get get you in trouble with some women being pschycoes.

2006-08-14 03:54:15 · 1 answers · asked by merlyn-canaid 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 03:53:48 · 45 answers · asked by Kain 5 in Singles & Dating

you see I'm afraid of what this girl I am crazy about will say the problem is I love and care about her too much to let her go. I fell in love before but those were bad relationships. But she doesn't know how much I care. Please help a misunderstood guy.

2006-08-14 03:53:08 · 7 answers · asked by Mitchy 2 in Singles & Dating