if i love a girl that belongs to another caste , then how can i make it easier to get married with that particular girl or how can i got her to make my love successful? It is clear that both of us loves with each other deeply. Both of us resides in a semi-urban area , basically where most of peoples sre superstitious.
2006-08-14 04:01:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
And how can i make my family to get ready for this marriage? Please give the answers as soon as possible bcoz i have a very less time and i m also in the middle of my family and my love.
2006-08-14 04:05:05 · update #1
Work on it man, where there is a will there is a way
2006-08-14 04:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.Gagan Saini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first decide that r u serious in ur LOVE.. if u feel love is the most important and u love truely/madly then proceed with the below mentioned ideas..
make ready urself and ur gf/bf mentally prepared to face all the problems/situations.
you two should come to a decision that u should not leave eachother at any cost/reason.
speak to both of ur parents politely/calmly and make them to u'stand that you two can lead a peaceful life and a good life..
i asked you to speak politely/camly ,this means you two should make ur parents to u'stand about ur love and not mean that u should not some times speak againgst ur parents..
tell them that you two cannot live without each other..
one thing we can solve all the probs by speaking and thinking correctly.. if you two are together and strong(mentally) then you can reach the success.. its very close..
ALL THE BEST
2006-08-14 11:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ganesh s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In India when marriage takes place its just not the girl become one Mrs. so&so, she also become someone's sis-in-law, someone's bhabi, someone's bhau. Thats the solid bonding of our society in India unlike western country. WE do have to respect, adjust, compromise with our society and at the same time have to show them the perspective of education and light. Caste is not a system its a concept which has nothing to do with love and relationship and marriage. Education is the only way we can get rid of this stigma.
2006-08-15 00:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in the US then you need to remind your parents that people who come here end up doing better and all classes are able to live together peacefully. If you really want to make this marriage work it will work.
2006-08-14 12:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are both working and are able to support yourselves, then both of you first talk to to your mother or older brother or older sister.
explain that you both love each other, and want to get married.
If your parents then agree , or one of the parents agree, then go to the other parents,and do the same.
If they do not cooperate, then get some friends and go to the court and get married. Then live on your own.
2006-08-15 00:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by cookiedada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the answer is..speak out to ur parents..v always assume thngs n v dont proceed..so please speak out ..n tell them abt the girl and make sure tht u ready for gettin married..and take all the responsiblities after it...please dont do ny stupidity like runnin away or nythng like tht...coz i knw wht tht stupidity is...nly thng is evryone gets hurt wid such stupidity..so please thnk over it properly..n once ur parents ready ..u can proceed n talk to hers along wid ur family...till thn all the best
2006-08-15 11:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by Chweet_alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Castes come from a sick, deprived, third-world, country. It is time to move to a different country...
2006-08-14 11:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
l really don't know, l think you should just run away with your love!
2006-08-14 11:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch KANK and you'll know.
2006-08-14 11:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by Mr.Too hot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your religion , or leave that girl
2006-08-22 03:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋