I'm a 21 year old female with a 4 year old son. I think I'm a pretty girl. The thing is I've been single for 3 years. I don't know whats wrong with me. I used to have friends with benefits, but I've stop that. I'm tired of being just a **** buddy. I want more than just sex. I want a relationship. Guys still call me after weeks of not responding back to them, but I know they just want sex. At first I liked being single, but know I want to be loved, but not just physically. I just want to know when will I find the one guy who will respect me and love me?Does Faith play a part in love?
2006-08-14 04:01:11 · 13 answers · asked by ire_nene21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that the best thing you could do is stop looking for the right guy. I do believe that fate plays an important role in love. When the time comes the right guy will just show and you will know its him. You made the right choice by deciding to stop having those sex- related relationships.
Try spending more time with your kid. You can even get involved in groups that involve activities for your kid (ie.sports, church stuff, single parents clubs, etc.) If you meet someone there at least you would have something in common, your kids.
Hope "the one " walks up to your door pretty soon. Good luck!
2006-08-14 04:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by metztli99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, a relationship is more than physical having a companion, a true friend is what we all want. But Faith does play a part in love, you're still young the right one will come along for you and your son as soon as you stop looking for him and just have FUN being single. don't press the issue, keep your eyes open and don't fall for the okie doke and he'll find you.
2006-08-14 04:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by matchbox 78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find the *one* when you are least expecting it! Right now, enjoy your son and don't settle for someone that doesn't respect you and your son. I was single and had a 6month old when I met my now husband...my biggest concern during those lonely times was that whomever came along knew that it was a package deal- I was not going to choose a man over my son no matter how bad my life *seemed* at the time. There are much more important things in life than having a disrespectful man causing more issues for you. Good luck...you'll find each other soon!
2006-08-14 04:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by sammy22005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should divert ur attention on something else right now. Sometimes when u push urself too much u fail to see the other part of u. Sex is not everything in life. U must understand that sex is love but love is not sex. give sometime to urself. Dont sleep around dear. tat will give the guys a bad impression on u. try to avoid this for sometime. U will meet the one in ur life...
it is just the matter of time...relax and unwind
2006-08-14 04:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by frozen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your biggest problem is that at your age (well our age actually) not many guys are going to want to date a women with a child, not seriously. You're going to have to find someone mature and possibly much older than you. There are a lot of guys that will still see you but not start something serious. in a few years things will get better but that can be a long time alone
2006-08-14 04:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe that is only matter of attitude and time, cause if somebody really love you, he can wait for you to be ready to have sex, and i mean ready with compromise, if the guy doesn't wait he only want some sex, the culture is different in the USA and Mexico, cause in here frist come the compromise the knowing of the person and the trust, and afther that, comes everything including sex, so you don`t despair you just dont sleep with all the man you know just to see if one of them is the really One, you depreciate yourself in that way.
2006-08-14 04:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying that "Patience comes to those who wait." I am in the same boat and it seems like I will never find true love. But you just have to find things to occupy your time and mind until love comes along. It usually happens when you least expect it. So stay busy girl!!
2006-08-14 04:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by misstrell504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, its not easy out there.......finding the right "one" can't be done overnight....for some people its just a longer process....it does not mean however, that your NOT going to find someone....Keep looking, and more importantly, be true to yourself. No more of this hook up business, ok? I believe your right when you say faith plays a part in love.......believe in yourself, and believe that there is someone out there for you....and it will come to you when you least expect it.
2006-08-14 04:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Kal EL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine of it as purely being between boyfriends. concentration on ending intense college properly and getting prepared for faculty. you do not opt to satisfy a guy now because you'd be going away to varsity so do not sweat the small stuff. burst off to varsity and meet an total new international of human beings, all of us will be lacking relations and searching for associates. good success!
2016-12-06 12:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the right time.
2006-08-14 04:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋