I love my girlfriend a whole lot but recently she decided to not go to work and dissappeared for a day and a half ( not the first time either )... Thus I didn't know where she was and she got fired! She can't keep a job, we just moved into a nice Condo and only has payed the deposit..... She is draining me, not only my money but mentally as well, I'm beginning to hate her... I need to kick her out, my feelings keep getting in the way though, it's like I don't have the guts because I love her.. but she needs to go what should I do? WE ARE BOTH ON THE LEASE
2006-08-14 04:03:54 · 14 answers · asked by osyrusct 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better sit down and have a long talk with her and tell her the truth about what this is doing to you.
That's not fair that you're the only responsible one and she is acting like a silly teenager who is taking you for all you've got. She sounds very childish and needs to be reminded that you are not her parent and not obligated to take care of her if she's not going to pull her share.
If she's that much of a loser then you should take her name off the lease. You should be able to do that if your name is first as the head lease.
2006-08-14 04:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you can't live like this any longer and tell her she has two options:
1. Shape up and keep a job and pay her part of the expenses
2. Continue on your path of destruction and you will force her out.
I'm sure that if you talk to the company/person you are leasing from (should it become necessary to throw her out), you can get her name removed.
2006-08-14 04:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both on the lease, you need to get the landlord involved. Then landlord can prepare a docment for her to sign that releases her from the lease. It's the only way.
2006-08-14 04:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k well u should tell how your feeling what may happen if she keeps what she is doing especially with money. i know u love her but if she loves u and really wants to be in your life then she should make an effort. if she doesnt want to and being loud about stuff like that then i think u shouldnt be with her. there are plenty of fish in the sea better ones
2006-08-14 04:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bouncer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the landlord or rental office and tell them your situation and see if they will let you do another lease with just you on it after she moves.
Then just tell her that you love her but she has to go, That you cant handle the unstable behavior and that you can no longer afford to pay her way.
2006-08-14 04:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st check on your options and liabilities with your part of the lease then talk to her and tell her how your feeling and that it cant go on like this.....tell her how u would like it to be and give her a chance to respond and tell her if some things cant change and it cant be worked out then you two need to separate....check out possibility of sub leasing so u both can go your separate ways
2006-08-14 05:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by OmeOmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there!
Try talking to her first, saying that she's draining you and that you're not willing to pay all of her bills and if she cant keep a job she'll need to move out. just because she moves out doesnt mean you two cant still be together either, just not living together.
Good luck
2006-08-14 04:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try working it out with her, if it doesn't work, find a new girlfriend and dump her. Also do whatever your mind tells you to do. Do what feels right
2006-08-14 04:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by sakhi93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both should sit down and take things over. If she is reasonable give her another try, if not look for another one.
2006-08-14 04:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are very confused but if u cant stand her let the girl go theres more ou there...
2006-08-14 04:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by 2 sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋