2006-08-14 03:55:20 · 41 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find someone who does love you
2006-08-14 03:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by officegirluk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember you cant change another but you casn change yourself..This guy may not be sure of what he wants for numerous reasons..it could be that he is too young&wants to explore more,it could be thsat you&him have drifted apart or at least he maby thinks so..it might be that he has found some1 else..if he is younger he might not have matured yet making commitment heavy duty to him scaring him off as women mature faster...or it could be he knows what he wants&you want&you dont want the same thing..Have a think about it&talk to him about WHY he is doing this..ASk him to be truthful as the lies will eventually come out for all you know he could be gay!But be nice,a man hates it when a woman is really argumentitive etc..He will be much more open if u are more understandig etc..Then you will know excatly where you stand..
Its better knowing the truth even though it hurts than not knowing at all..so you can move on if thats the case..
hope this helps..
I wish you the happiness you deserve...
love&Light
Auriel
Your new Friend
2006-08-14 04:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by aurielwiccan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try and cling on to him and keep him if he doesn`t want to be with you,i know it`s hard but you just have to be strong and let him go,i went through the same thing 2 months ago and i am now back with my bf who i have been with for almost 6 years.
Maybe the same thing will happen between you two,maybe he just needs time to sort out his feelings but don`t sit about waiting for him to change his mind and come back to you as he may not.
I know how hard it is when someone turns around and tells you they dont love you anymore,it hurts your pride and you feel like a failure especially as you thought things where going good between you and you were gonna grow old together etc.
The best thing for you to do is accept his decision,behave like an adult and let him go,dont phone or text him and be with your family and friends,keep yourself busy and cry if you want to as its aallowed but dont allow yourself to become depressed and down as no man is worth the heartache,maybe you just weren`t right for each other and believe me there`s abig world out there and so is your Mr right,chin up and goodluck,xx
2006-08-18 02:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh babes - I'm so sorry.
Theres nothing you can do - but make sure you have a lot of really great friends and family who will support you.
I know they all say it - but there is someone out there that will want to spend the rest of there life with you.
2006-08-14 04:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Gem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. Be thankful he was honest enough to let you know his true feelings. Nomatter how much you love a person you cannot make them love you back, its something they have to have in their hearts for you. Remember as long as there is breath in you you have a chance to love again....go out there and find your true love...
2006-08-14 05:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mellissa T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put some high heels on, a nice low cut top and go for a drink around Mathew Street, and let him see what you are wearing too
2006-08-14 05:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by paulcartwheel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't love you, it's over. There's no point in trying to convince him otherwise. If you had fallen out of love with him, him trying to convince you otherwise would make you want to run a mile, no doubt. So, keep your dignity and walk away. Good luck. There's someone out there who won't fall out of love with you.
2006-08-14 08:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am sorry dear but i have to agree with the majority,if he has told u he dosen't love you then you have to accept it and move on. Really there are plenty more fishes in the sea and you might end up finding a better person,don't limit your options. tw xxx
2006-08-14 10:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't love you, then move on and someone that truly cares for you will come along. You have to learn to let go and not live a lie
2006-08-14 03:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him! what else can you do? it's over and he's been honest at least. get ready for someone to really love but clear the way first... tough one but you'll be glad you split when you meet the destiny that waits for you.
2006-08-14 04:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't love you don't waste your time go and find someone to give you the love and respect that you clearly deserve
2006-08-14 04:00:41 · answer #11 · answered by paul s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋