Family & Relationships - 14 August 2006

2006-08-14 19:07:15 · 24 answers · asked by blkhawk51 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother has a sickening addiction to methamphetamine. Our immediate family is well aware of it, due to her stealing from family, not working for months now & still managing to miraculously pay bills, buy gifts, etc. My mother and I are very open & we have discussed her situation. I'm defensive for my other family members (and myself) that she's stolen from, with tact. (That IS my mother.) Her boyfriend and her inform me when she's so sick from being without her "drug". Both of them are users and neither of them are working to correct their problem ... if they even see it as that. It's breaking up our family & I'm torn in the middle, trying to do the impossible and defend/please all parties involved. I'm pregnant & it's getting to the point where I'm tired of being nice and wish I could consciously decide to cut that out of my life, but ... it's my mother. It's a very hard decision ... & everyone is hoping I can find the solution. What do I do?

2006-08-14 19:07:02 · 23 answers · asked by Empress 3 in Family

why I am attracted to a guy who is 15 years older than me ( I am in my 30s) and reminds me of some qualities like my father. I approach him for advices all the time like what I always do to my father.
I have a good loving father and I don't see any unsolved problems between me and my father. Is this attraction right and/or normal? Will this relationship work out if it develops into marriage? Anyone has this kind of marriage experience, is it good or bad? Confused and need help.

2006-08-14 19:06:39 · 8 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so here is my problem.

my girlfriend was just starting me a h*andjob and i think it is the piece of skin that connects the out side skin and the penis its self basically ripped and caused me to bleed about a shotglass full of blood. and given that we were in a public place there wasnt really awhole lot I could do. so i went into a public bathroom it wasnt bleeding and it hasnt done it again since then.will this heal? I havent masturbated since because i dont want to make it worse. anyone ever had this happen to them? or know if it will heal soon?

2006-08-14 19:06:05 · 12 answers · asked by andy p 1 in Singles & Dating

my kids are horrible i have tried absolutely everything they just dont listen im going to start spanking

2006-08-14 19:05:29 · 12 answers · asked by anastasia 1 in Family

2006-08-14 19:05:08 · 7 answers · asked by susan_112147 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-14 19:05:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been with this guy for a while and i have been thinkoing about if it is really worth holding off till i get married. can it really make or break a relationship?

2006-08-14 19:04:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im getting married tomorrow but we are not sure how you do that, how do I change my lastname to his, Im not american and im not german either, and he is american, hes in the military over here in Germany, so we are getting married by the german laws, does anyone know how that works? do we have to talk to a lawyer? or they ask if we wanna change my lastname? thanks for your help!

2006-08-14 19:04:54 · 2 answers · asked by jimena 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She has a boyfriend of 3 years but she just can't seem to stop contacting him. My boyfriend says that he never contacts her but he's very cordial when she reaches out to him. It drives me crazy!

2006-08-14 19:04:53 · 11 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Singles & Dating

He's 35 and she's 20 going on 12. They are both from traumatic childhoods, he was molested in foster homes, and she never got passed the 8th grade. They had one son who passed away playing outside in the street when he was only 2. They have another son who just turned two and she's due to give birth at the end of this month. When they have the babies, they drop them off like dirty laundry to my house to take care of until someone calls social services and they leave the state. They are running from three states right now. I love my nephew dearly, but they aren't taking care of him. And recently my brother in law told me that his wife no longer wants to be a mom. We have five children, our oldest daughter is grown and we have four boys already to care for. However, I've been struggling with the idea of taking in my nephew and the new baby. They would, without a doubt be better off. My husband has a difference of opinion on this and we are butting heads. Help!

2006-08-14 19:03:33 · 2 answers · asked by Hollynfaith 6 in Family

2006-08-14 19:02:01 · 5 answers · asked by udontnome 2 in Family

I was dating my boyfriend for a mont and when we were not official he hooked up with somenoe practicall in front of me. This girl that he knew from highschool kissed him and he ended up staying at her house when we were all drunk that night. I told him that our relationship was over. After not talking for a couple of weeks, we started slowly dating again and now we've been together for 2 years. He's a great guy and always says that he made a huge mistake that night. I try to forgive and forget but deep down I am still mad and can't completely let it go. What do I do? Will I ever totally forget? Am I over reacting?

2006-08-14 19:00:31 · 6 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 18:59:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-14 18:58:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've been married for four years. however, back when we were dating something happened that never left my mind. we wern't exclusive yet, and i knew she was dating somebody else. i stopped by her dorm unexpectedly and her roomate let me in. i was making smalll talk with the roomate when i heard the bed start moving and all the sounds of passion. apparantly, the roomate didnt know the somebody else was over, and i had an awkward conversation about nothing while listening to the woman who is now my wife have sex with somebody else. the roomate didn't kick me out, but it got to be too weird and i left. i saw her later that night and either we both pretended that i knew nothing or the roomate never said anything. as crazy as it ought to make me - i constantly fantasize about those sounds. and i feel like a bizzaro for getting off on something that would make anyone else sick.

2006-08-14 18:58:38 · 8 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Singles & Dating

He and I have been special friends )platonic for over 5 years..I was there for him through a terrible divorce...he calls me several times a day...I dont pursue him at all..however I am there for him when he calls. We do a lot of things with his kids and always have a fun time. When I indicated recently that what I really wanted was for him to just ask me out...lets get back to basics " a date"...he freaked and said he would not date someone in his circle. What is that about??? I thought since he and I are so comfortable currently that a further step of progression could be a date. I guess I was wrong...and I was also very hurt. I took a leap of faith and got hurt.. Ouch!!!

2006-08-14 18:58:28 · 3 answers · asked by Cat 1 in Friends

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2006-08-14 18:57:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 18:57:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What ever the question is people give rude answers. Where is the love?

2006-08-14 18:56:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im in a relationship that i dont think may be the best thing for me, but we have a baby together and i so desperately want everything to be perfect for this baby and to have the perfect life, but i dont think it's possible w/ the person i'm with. i just cant imagine moving on from him because we've been together for 4 years and have had really happy times

2006-08-14 18:56:07 · 1 answers · asked by Trisha J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this one girl so much.how to approach her? we've been friends nearly 3 years and this year i get to knew her better.what she likes/dislikes and everything.she's the most important inlife now.she's someone very special to me.

i have this problem with approaching.i had been turned down many times before so i'm facing problem such as "will she likes me as much i like her?","what if she has someone else?","what if she doesnt like me?","i am not that handsome,will she like me?" and so on...

the latest thing i did is delivered roses to her office using a delivery boy instead of myself.can someone give me pointers on what to do?

2006-08-14 18:55:43 · 19 answers · asked by xnetcfg 1 in Singles & Dating

well my boyfriend and i been together for 2 1/2 years. i love him with all my heart and i don't want to lose him as a boyfriend. but he mistreats me such as saying things no boyfriend should say to his girlfriend. he fights about anything. and lets say he does me a favor, he later on rubs it in my face. i'm getting sick and tired of they way he treats me but i know that he loves me. and i'm constantly telling him that he is making a mistake because if he keeps on acting the way he is now then i'm just going to have to break up with him because i don't want to deal with it any longer. he is slowly pushing me away?

2006-08-14 18:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by chris is short for christal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 18:54:58 · 1 answers · asked by Jamie M 1 in Friends

There is this girl i work with she is so cute we talk alot she takes pictures of me with her phone but i am not sure if she has the same felling for me as i do for her oh yea and we are both lifeguards

2006-08-14 18:54:19 · 9 answers · asked by Tblacklegacy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 18:53:41 · 4 answers · asked by ~So Divine~ 2 in Family

This is only my opinion, but, my ideal first date would be at the dump. Because I have been told that I have a great laugh. The guy told me, that he would take me to the dump, because if we got married, and I was having a bad day, he would remind me of the first date, so I would laugh and make me feel better, and make him feel better because he heard me laugh. I know that nobody likes to be taken to the dump, but I do. Am I weird? I dont think I am because of the story I just told you.

2006-08-14 18:53:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents got divorced when i was about 2 and my dad pretty much wants nothing to do with me but i want him in my life we live in the same town but he never talks to me

2006-08-14 18:52:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she gettin maried the 19th of aug. and when the preist asks"does anyone object" i wanna say yes but im 2 scared....wat shud i do?...i dont wanna embarress our side of the family

2006-08-14 18:52:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

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2006-08-14 18:51:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating