well my boyfriend and i been together for 2 1/2 years. i love him with all my heart and i don't want to lose him as a boyfriend. but he mistreats me such as saying things no boyfriend should say to his girlfriend. he fights about anything. and lets say he does me a favor, he later on rubs it in my face. i'm getting sick and tired of they way he treats me but i know that he loves me. and i'm constantly telling him that he is making a mistake because if he keeps on acting the way he is now then i'm just going to have to break up with him because i don't want to deal with it any longer. he is slowly pushing me away?
2006-08-14 18:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by chris is short for christal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is abuse and dont put up with it. no relationship is worth it when there is abuse of any nature. more on relationships on this site
2006-08-14 19:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to say it but if he fights about anything something may be going on and you need to get to the bottom of it and if he doesn't listen to you when you say you better str8-10 up and fly right then you just have to show him me and my boyfriend had been together for 4 years and 11 months the month b/4 our 3 years I left him and I have never seen such a whinny cry baby he couldn't do anything with out me when they say you don't realize what you have until it's gone is so true he doesn't know how to cook,do laundry,balance a check book nothing so when they are totally depending on you it makes it even more funnier to watch then crawl around begging for forgiveness lol just do it plan on leaving him for ohhh a week or longer whatever suits your needs
2006-08-15 02:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by p-nut butter princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is serious situation and you have to tackle it carefully. You are with this guy for long, breaking is not the solution.
I think you need a break in your relations, either 2 of you go on holiday or you need to talk to him. You have to put your foot down .
It doesn't matter if he Love's you or not but he is blaming you for nothing. In any case if it continues like this you will loose your love soon.
I think it is better to be strong once for all and talk to him, if he gives a ear well else tell him that we have to separate.
I know it is not eazy but it is better that the situation you are in. You will strain Ur self all the time.
2006-08-15 02:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by Nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please get out of that relationship before it affects you psychologically. Think about what you would want your boyfriend to be like. Think of how you would like him to treat you. If you current boyfriend is mistreating you why would you want to stick it out. He has lost interest and is probably ready to if not already seeing someone else. Bottom line is if someone loves you he will be glad to do favors for you, you would fight yes but not about anything and the fact that you have told him and he does nothing to change means he doesn't care about your feelings. so please say goodbye. I know it will hurt but at least you will have peace. I always believe that it is better to be alone than be with someone but unhappy.
2006-08-15 02:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My teen daughter just got out a relationship like you describe and like I told her, you can't date/marry someone expecting them to change to something good. However they treat you now is how they'll treat you later. Your b/f isn't going to have some epihany where he suddenly realizes that you're so special that he should treat you better. Nope. Pretty much if you've accepted his bad behavior towards you for 2 years he's pretty much trained that you'll stay with him anyway.
2006-08-15 02:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by karen W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to back up the threat with an action.... You say if he keeps treating you this way you will break up with him... So be prepared to do as you say the threat of you breaking up with him is not enough you have to show him you mean what you say
2006-08-15 02:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose his A**! He doesnt deserve you at all! If you stay with him, it quite possibly could change into a phisical threat. Get on with your life and find a REAL MAN. Thats someone who doesnt treat his woman like sh*t.
2006-08-15 02:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by r8dr_guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still with this jerk? Leaving him now would tell him volumns. You don't have to stay and take his sheit!
2006-08-15 05:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's kinda confusing but if your bf doesnt stop treating you like that you will be in misery. he'll change but dont change him. just give him his own dose.
2006-08-15 02:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by Magnificent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋