she gettin maried the 19th of aug. and when the preist asks"does anyone object" i wanna say yes but im 2 scared....wat shud i do?...i dont wanna embarress our side of the family
2006-08-14 18:52:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Wow you sound like I did when my mam got wed.only I had to leave my only sister & all my friends & family back in Ireland to move to usa so she could be with him.But the way I saw it was,she sacraficed so much all her life to make my childhood the best one I could have with only parent,& now it was her time to finally be happy.I looked upon him as taking my mam away from me but I really just had to learn how to share her.He makes her so happy & I didn't want to stand in the way of that.I guess what I'm trying to say is,if he makes your mam happy don't be the one to ruin that on her.She won't thank you for it.Just tell her calmly how you feel & whether or not she listens is a different story but she is your mother & she can make her own decisions.Please don't do that whole dramatic thing in the church.
2006-08-14 19:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by princess joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really talk to your mom about the way you feel. my mom is dating a complete asshole and marriage is a big fear for me. you should defifnitely tell your mom before the wedding because if you object out of no where it will ruin the wedding and embarress your mom. if you do something like that your problem with him wont be taken seriously.
2006-08-14 20:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there i get the feeling that you dont get on with youre mums future husband to well ,dont say anything at the wedding ,do it well before and not by shouting it out just say to youre mum that you want a chat with her and try and explain how you feel about it and i also get the feeling that youre dad might be an issue you need to talk to someone sweet heart and get youre feeling sorted out if you where to blurt it out at the wedding you would get a hell of a lot of hassle there and then and after it would be worse ,later ,youre mum is lokking forward to her big dayso talk to her and see if things can be sorted out that way good luck ,take care xx
2006-08-14 21:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your only problem with him is his weight/ size, then i think you're being very selfish. if your mom is happy then you should be happy for her. i mean i could understand your feelings if he was violent or abusive. (which if he is, you didn't say anything about it.) otherwise i think you're being very selfish and immature. we didn't even have the "does anyone object" part in our wedding. (and besides, i think in most weddings, it's "if anyone can show just cause why the two people should not be wed" or something along those lines...) bottom line, let your mom be happy!
2006-08-14 20:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by kiki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a minor you should express any concerns to your mother. If you are an adult you should trust your mother to know what is best for her. Remember she raised youy not the other way around. Respect her decision.
2006-08-18 18:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by la kira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your mom before the weeding or ele you gotta live with him...but mayb hes a nice guy mayb not i have no idea
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2006-08-16 07:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fat? thats your biggest problem with him??? are you kidding! first figure out if there is anything wrong with the guy; will he hurt you, treat you or your mom badly. if not... get yourself into some therapy buddy. you need to be more openminded about people. and keep your skinny mouth shut at the reception.
2006-08-14 21:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by musicbeast 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. That's your moms thing. Beside most clergy have taken that out of the ceremony.
2006-08-14 19:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your mom know how you feel first talk to your mom and then second remember it is her life and she is the adult you only have to stay at home till you are 18 and then you can out on your own and only have to deal with at family gaterings
2006-08-14 18:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by christy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the reason that you don't like this guy? Is it just because of his weight or is there more to it? (seems like that to me). Unless you have a concrete reason as to why you don't like him try to be happy for your mother.
2006-08-14 19:00:00 · answer #10 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋