what do you do to avoid being blinded by love?

Question

im in a relationship that i dont think may be the best thing for me, but we have a baby together and i so desperately want everything to be perfect for this baby and to have the perfect life, but i dont think it's possible w/ the person i'm with. i just cant imagine moving on from him because we've been together for 4 years and have had really happy times

Answer 1

Being blinded by love is unavoidable, but being blinded to reality is something we do as well.
You have to think what is best for you and the baby.