i have been with this guy for a while and i have been thinkoing about if it is really worth holding off till i get married. can it really make or break a relationship?
2006-08-14 19:04:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
relationship without sex is nonsense. so go get it. anyway virginity is not a dignity.. lol
2006-08-14 19:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by excalibur_rm . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would know the man you will marry will be the man of your dreams anyways. You never know until you have been with him for a while after you marry him. Therefore do it if you two feel confortable with it. Don't let the "wait till married" stop you. Your future husband could be a total jerk, you wish you had sex with somebody else, but is not possible by then. In the other hand, you can also end up marryng a man you will be very happy with.
Either way a woman's value is not placed in her vagina, but in her heart and brains.
2006-08-14 19:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES AND YES. Hold out for the man you want to marry. It will save you a lot of heartache. If you were the type who could have meaningless sex, you wouldn't have asked this question.
Men like conquest. Often when you give sex in an uncommittted relationship they just move on to the next conquest eventually.
2006-08-14 19:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well whenever you feel comfortable to have sex then that will be the best time. My old teacher told me that you have to be physically ready and emotionally ready. There is no RIGHT time to have sex but there is a right feeling and an appropriate person. All of these things depend on you, your life style, morals and feelings. If you want to wait until you get married then that is your decision and no one elses.
Never feel that you have to sleep with someone or that you owe them your body, you always have a say in what happens.
I hope you come to a decision that you feel suits you and makes you happy.........GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-08-14 19:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As u said u have just meet this guy for awhile, that means u havent know him well enough...May be its a bit old fashion, but everyone in this world s breaking their virginity, why dont u just keep it for yourself until you find someone that you think that you really worth it !!! May be , it could be your future husband!!! If he knew you are virgin , he will love u more and he will more appreaciate uuu... It s not wrong to be a virgin, nothing wrong about it !! I dont object people having sex before marriage, but its better you preserve to someone you really love... And woman's body s very special and precious, just take some times and think about it, before you do something you might regret...Whatever your decision, i will support u.. Good Luck !! God Bless uu
2006-08-14 19:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holding off can make a relationship if he's really the one for you.
Holding off can break a relationship if he isn't...at which point, it will be in your favor anyway.
Yes - hold off on having sex until you find the man of your DREAMS. It's so worth it. Don't give up your good stuff to the unworthy fellas...
2006-08-14 19:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can make your relationship better. Sex is a beautiful act between a man and a woman who are married. Sex is for the marriage bed only. Please trust me when I tell you it will be worth the wait!
Dpn't listen to other people who say you should do it before hand. there is no need.
2006-08-14 19:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should..it wont make or break a relationship..it's whether u guys love one another or not..hold it till u get married and having sex will most probably be one of the dreams come thru..
2006-08-14 19:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by alexgnot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's pressing you,you've a tough decision to make. If he doesn't like the pie ,he'll be gone and you'll be empty inside.If you hold off, he'll appreciate that pie much more if he's the type that doesn't belong to the 4- F club, he'll love you forever! Being a man ,I think that if he really loves you he will honor and cherish your wishes.
2006-08-14 19:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very PERSONAL decision and one which ONLY you can make...
If you have a partner who is supportive and respects your wishes then you should relax and not feel pressured to have sex..
However if you want to have sex and you are in a loving relationship and your boyfriend feels the same way then again that is your personal decision..
Dont feel pressured to have sex if you are not ready.. we live in a sex obsessed culture and sometimes it feels as if we are bombarded daily with sexual overtones..
If your boyfriend loves you then he will understand and be supportive WHATEVER YOU BOTH DECIDE...
If your relationship is based on the premise that you HAVE to have sex in order for it to survive.. then you dont really have a relationship in the First place do you?
Your Body, Your Decision... Remember NOBODY can take away your DIGNITY, RESPECT or VALUES but yourself...
2006-08-14 19:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If a lady opt to chop up with re sex then possibly she isnt the lady for you. you opt to be common to the man no possibly first few dates merely enable someone recognize a touch about you. I dated a guy who by no skill advised me he didnt opt to have sex then after we were given extremely some distance he reported he grow to be saving himself for marriage good theory to enable someknow formerly it is going to some distance::))
2016-11-25 01:49:36 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋