Family & Relationships - 9 August 2006

why does it hurt so bad when someone that you loved and trusted totally shits on you and walks out of your life? And why is it so hard to move on and let go of the past? Can anyone out there give me any ideas on how to get over this pain that i feel?

2006-08-09 06:57:26 · 11 answers · asked by psycholilblondegirl 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf are suffreing from problems.daily we fight and argue.relation is getting horrible day by day.although we love each other but we are hurting each other.we cant stay without one another neither we are able to control aur frustrations. getting demanding day by day.wat should we do?

2006-08-09 06:57:08 · 17 answers · asked by ajnabi k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Shes always gettin in our bussiness and she gets mad when he wants to spend time with just me. his only day off work is sunday so thats our day. and she always gets in a bad mood saturday night and is in that mood all day sunday but then monday morning everythings fine again. how can i talk to him about her behavior without him gettin mad?

2006-08-09 06:57:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-09 06:56:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have an ex-step daughter who ended up on my doorstep after her mother put her out because she is pregnant (shes just 13 years old) i took her in and she since gave birth to a girl. i took on responsibilty of everything. now her mom wants to come back in the picture its her mom so i have her deal with this i stepped back but now her "jessica" doesnt want to talk to her mother and now her moms blaming me. I since move and started all over with "jessica". With the help of her father i got her in school etc. but her mom is still harrassing me and i had enough what should i do.

2006-08-09 06:56:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

without being too obvious or creepy- to know if he feels the same?

2006-08-09 06:56:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 06:55:38 · 5 answers · asked by jordan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bestfriend went out with my ex, which hurt me deeply. then they broke up and my other friend stared tlk to him, and that was her ex boyfriend bestfriend which is also my cousin, hurt him and the other girl, there more to it and it is confussing but know there all tlk but not my cousin and i we have nothing to do with them, it was wrong for both of my friends to go out with my ex. that a # 1 no no. and to hurt my cousin and lie to him after three year relationship. Is it me or is that wrong , they say i'm triping

2006-08-09 06:54:08 · 10 answers · asked by lafred116 2 in Singles & Dating

Im so tired of black men referring to themselves as having a large penis, when its not true at all....your in denial brothas or is that all you feel you have to offer.

2006-08-09 06:54:04 · 22 answers · asked by brite star 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

listen i want to thank you all i don't mean small by size i mean small because i'm young that is all the problem . boys don't like to talk to me because they say i'm young for them . and i only like older guys between 20 or21 so what should i do ??? i feel like there is something missing in my life ???? ireally what to how do you feel when you have a boyfriend???

2006-08-09 06:52:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've never kicked a guy there. ever. but i've come to learn my daughter has. we had a talk about how serious that could be, but sadly enough - i walked away a little jelous. i wish i had the nerve to stand up for myself the way she did, or be a take no bullshit kind of ***** for once. i got to thinking about how when i go out with my freinds, certain guys feel free to be crude and act like they're doing me a huge a favor (thinking because i'm a bit chunky i ought to be desperate and thankful for their crass propositions). if it did it NOBODY would blame me. i so could do it. so i feel kind of pathetic for entertaining the thought, and at the same time oh so tempted.

2006-08-09 06:52:54 · 24 answers · asked by x o 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 06:52:51 · 8 answers · asked by jonesywonesy 2 in Friends

what happends when you burn someones picture in the night???
(guys pic.) i don't know why i want to burn it but i just do........what will happend and how long will it take????????? i want to know ??
*will he come back to me or what ??????????

2006-08-09 06:51:44 · 22 answers · asked by ♥Unforgetable 2 in Friends

that when two people breakup they still have feelings for that person or do they just forget they ever met them and never had any feelings. even if it was a terrible breakup

2006-08-09 06:51:32 · 11 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

can you give me your email address and I'll email you right now.

2006-08-09 06:50:49 · 22 answers · asked by belinda lelen victor baby girl u 1 in Friends

would you leave him alone and let your best friend have him or would you stop talking to her/him and go about your business let me know.

2006-08-09 06:50:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

please tell me your stand on watching porn and being ina relationship.do you love your mate if your doing it,or is it something that you cant control?please tell me,im on the verge of breaking up with my boyfriend again because of it.

2006-08-09 06:50:13 · 25 answers · asked by 0000000000000000000000 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 06:50:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I were living together for a year (I know that's not that long). Lately we'd been having a lot of trouble and I had been trying really hard to work on/improve our relationship. We got into an argument yesterday evening and last night he packed up all of his things and left.

I really wanted to work things out and I really wished he'd stay. I tried to talk/reason with him but he said he HAD to leave.

We were about to buy a house together (we were renting) and now I don't know what I'm going to do.

How do I get through this? How do I move on? Any words of encouragement?

2006-08-09 06:49:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 06:49:43 · 13 answers · asked by Andy S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It has been two times already that my husband talks to me about girls that were or are pretty that he really wanted to date, but for stupid reasons he didn't, he says. He is always describing them to me, and of course they are not similar to me. I am not an ugly person or a "fatty". The only thing I found that he points out to me is that I have brown skin. I'm mexican. These two girls that he talked about have light skin or light hair. I don't why he is doing that. Honeslty, he is not a handsome guy. I am 25 and he is 35. He always comes with this kind of conversations out of the blue. I feel like he regrets being with me, or that he feels like he should have had better. I had guys who are very handsome wanted to date me when I was dating him, but I don't shove it to his face. What's wrong with him? or With me?

2006-08-09 06:49:29 · 14 answers · asked by Chikis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-09 06:49:25 · 11 answers · asked by *Brittany.. 1 in Singles & Dating

i've made plans to spend a week at home, then see my boyfriend. now my mom tells me that my dad would really appreciate if i could stay 3 more days, but that cuts a big hole in the time i have with my boyfriend. besides, i've already bought tickets and everything. but if i don't stay 3 more days, i feel like my family will hate me. i'll feel guilty, and i hate that. what should i do?

2006-08-09 06:49:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mom has a problem with her brother...he has "problems" and wont listen to anybody....he is practically homeless...has no money...and no job....he can never keep his job because he has major problems...and about the money....our family has helped him....but now we cant anymore..hes getting worse and worse...and my mom doesnt know what to do..her brothers and sisters dont want anything to do with him...what should we do??

2006-08-09 06:49:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

1st when I met my husband I seen those 3 children and I felt they needed help and my husband has diabetes and he doesnt like himself he is very stressed and I am still mad i never got a wedding in a church or a wedding ring with a diamond or time alone with him. Right now im dealing with the children saying im not there mother and the son punched me in the eye and i got a black eye. So he moved to my mom and dads when he should of moved to his moms. I am loosing feelings for my husband because he never sticks up for me in any situation. When i try to talk he just gets mad and doesnt want to deal with anything. Im tired and I work all the time and he is alway sick or in the hospital. He tells me sometimes I need to find a man who can help me sexually and that hurts my feelings. Now im sad and I want to be happy in my life. I want to get out and live a happy life im tired of being sad and unhappy who has any good advice for me?

2006-08-09 06:48:57 · 20 answers · asked by lori 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met someone online, I know it sounds chessy and I wasn't trying to meet anyone this way. Anyways we have really hit it off. We believe that we are made for each other, almost like soul mates. He wants to fly out to meet me, we live about 2000 miles apart from each other. Would him flying out mean anything different than trying to see if we have a connection in person? I mean surely it couldn't be just to meet and be friends, right?

2006-08-09 06:48:50 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

What should I do?

2006-08-09 06:48:49 · 6 answers · asked by trisha_is_bored 2 in Singles & Dating

does you do it and do you like it?

2006-08-09 06:48:44 · 10 answers · asked by allie_to_you 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need Gerard's((lead singer of My Chemical Romance)) phone number! I need a proven phone number if anyone has it. I would really appreciate it! PLEASE!!

2006-08-09 06:48:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We moved to MD cause i'm from here. We both have jobs but our car broke down & is junked. We struggle everyday to get rides to work. Then the friend we're staying with for 2 months says it's time for us to get out. We have no place to go & will have to live on the streets. I've made calls to churches & shelters etc. Any suggestions?

2006-08-09 06:48:20 · 3 answers · asked by Linda N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships