listen i want to thank you all i don't mean small by size i mean small because i'm young that is all the problem . boys don't like to talk to me because they say i'm young for them . and i only like older guys between 20 or21 so what should i do ??? i feel like there is something missing in my life ???? ireally what to how do you feel when you have a boyfriend???
2006-08-09 06:52:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
youve got time. for the moment stick with guys your own age
2006-08-09 06:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by prizzma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any sort of "father figure" in your life? That may be what's missing in your life. I hope that you realize that dating someone that's over 18 isn't very healthy for you ant this time in your life. And when they say that you're too young for them, (sorry to say) but they're exactly right. You don't need someone older, that could lead to a whole lot of other things that you don't want to deal with right now. With my boyfriend, I feel like the happiest person in the world, but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't be happy if I was single. You need to take a break to figure yourself out and to enjoy being single- instead of worrying that you're missing something in your life. You'll find that certain someone when you're ready, and who knows- it may be in the one place that you never expected.
2006-08-09 14:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking for a father figure instead of a boyfriend. If you are only 16, 20 and 21 yr. old boys are too old and experienced for you. They will mess your life up. Try to stick to guys your own age for now. You've got the rest of your life to grow up. When you get 20, the age difference is not that bad.
2006-08-09 13:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 16 and my bf is 18. I always like older guys too, it causes a lot of problems and there are so many things to worry about, but I get along way better with them. I've never dated a guy my own age and never wanted to. Maybe you're the same. You just have to meet the right guy and see where it goes from there. Also try parties for college age people... i'm going to one tomorrow! lol
Good luck
2006-08-09 14:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by cheering_cutie32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the age that you are at I don't think you have dated enough to know what you want so stating that you only want 20 -21 yr olds is not what you should be saying. Also age is just a number, its not a man or a boy. You shouldn't be looking for a number you should be looking for a person ...
2006-08-09 13:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bena the bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, it is not that you are just young but any guy over 18 could go to jail for getting into a serious relationship with you. I remember being in high school and I remember every dance I always went to there was that group at the back just hanging. They usually looked way to old to be there and they always left early without enjoying themselves. Guys that old tend to want girls they can do things with like go to bars and stay out past 10pm. Keep looking, don't date a guy just to date him, stay away from twenty-somethings that like 16 year old girls chances are somethings wrong with them.
2006-08-09 14:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by lawsonmc11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all what i can say that there is is a defferent between love someone from the deep of your heart and want to have just a boyfriend to hang around so u r 16 am not that old am 17 yeah i konw what u r going throw cuz i still in it i feel like there is a gap in my life i feel that i want to have someone to love i think if i had agirl friend she will cool down the fire in my heart so all what i am saying try to love
2006-08-09 14:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by N!ckola$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont blame these older boys 16 will get them 20 years in prison if i were you i'd find a guy say 17 or just turning 18 and start there
2006-08-09 13:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by the ole ball and chain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go read a book or play with a Barbie doll.
Your too young to date. Wait until your 18 or out of mommy's house.
2006-08-09 13:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by bella_mexicana_rellena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are into older guys, then find them locally and not on the Net because it is dangerous for guys to be looking for younger women on the net and they go to jail. So find them locally because on the net you could end up with a weird freak
2006-08-09 13:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by cbg_mx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating older guys is a crutch: they have the experience to take control and make you feel less awkward. It will make you lazy in your relationships.
Dating and sex is ALL ABOUT awkwardness, and getting over it, and making it smooth.
Date guys your own age. Don't run away from a very valueable rite of passage.
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2006-08-09 14:17:25 · answer #11 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋