my bestfriend went out with my ex, which hurt me deeply. then they broke up and my other friend stared tlk to him, and that was her ex boyfriend bestfriend which is also my cousin, hurt him and the other girl, there more to it and it is confussing but know there all tlk but not my cousin and i we have nothing to do with them, it was wrong for both of my friends to go out with my ex. that a # 1 no no. and to hurt my cousin and lie to him after three year relationship. Is it me or is that wrong , they say i'm triping
2006-08-09 06:54:08 · 10 answers · asked by lafred116 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All of you are completely messed up - you need to calm down about the situation - he was your EX, not your boyfriend! If she helped him cheat on you, yes, you havea right to be upset, but you didn't want him - which means you want him to be available for others. As far as the situation with your cousin, I don't have any idea what's going on there, but as long as noone is using others' emotions to take advantage of them, I don't see anything wrong with it.
Make love, not war!
2006-08-09 06:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy O 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you have the right to feel however you feel about the situation.
I have experienced my best friend dating my ex. Although she asked me first and I said ok, it still made me feel bad. They didn't last. I would never even think of desiring my friends ex. I aggree that it is just a Big NONO.
I unfortunately experienced a 'friend' who dated and slept with a not yet ex! That was dead wrong. I was so hurt and really wanted to kill her-but of course I didn't. Don't think that I can ever let another girl get that close to me again.
Anyway, it could be worse. You could have a triflin so-called-friend who would sleep with your man.
2006-08-09 07:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by April G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends' ex-boyfriends/girlfriends are off-limits entirely. Period. Depending on how old you are, your friends simply may not yet realize that this is a rule of life... tell them to try it again in their 20s or 30s when things become serious. They won't have any friends left.
2006-08-09 07:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is wrong. It sounds like all these people need to grow up and quit swapping mates. That is wrong to date your friends ex especially if you know it hurts them. That isnt a true friend if they disregard your feelings. That is ridiculous and immature. You arent tripping.
2006-08-09 07:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do think it is wrong but if they want to do that then let them because there only hurting themselves not you but in another way they are hurting you because you probally still have feelings these guys so there hurting you and hurting thamselves too dont worry about it because one day you will go back out with the guys you really care about!
2006-08-09 07:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by kristina g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is an ex, then why does it bother you? It shouldnt. If they are happy with one another then why does it matter? Im also curious as to why you are upset with her and not upset with him.
The relationship she had with your cousin is their relationship and has nothing to do with you. best to keep it that way!
2006-08-09 06:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Judi V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trippin', back in the 70's free love reigned supreme and we were always in this situation, and look how we turned out.
2006-08-09 06:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it bother you so much, if you look at him as your X , l could understand your point if he was your current bof friend. but he's your X.
2006-08-09 06:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur right. they are wrong. ur friend shouldnt have gon out with ur ex.
2006-08-09 06:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by lax_world343 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you aint tripping girl **** them let them go they aint' really your friends if they doing stupdi as **** like that.
2006-08-09 06:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋