2006-08-09 06:55:38 · 5 answers · asked by jordan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if i were you, i'd get over it. face reality. you are 19 years old. you don't have a college education, you don't have a stable job, i highly doubt you make enough to fully support yourself not to mention a child, and lastly half the grown ups in this world can barely support a kid! why should you be any different? why don't you do your future child a favor and set a good example for him or her by waiting until you are ready. i bet you don't even have a savings account and if you do i am positive you don't have
enough in there for a real emergency. it's recommended that a person have at LEAST 3 months worth of income in savings. you have no idea the responsibilites it takes to have a child! trust me, you aren't ready! teens who have kids struggle! is that what you want? why in the heck are you in such a rush to grow up for? trying to fill an emotional void or trying to gain unconditional love for and from having a baby is really irresponsible, not to mention IMMATURE.
update: jordan i just got your email, i am sorry i am not trying to be mean here but if you can't even spell 'fiance' (you spelled it fionsa) that alone should tell you to go to school. how are you gonna teach YOUR CHILD to spell if you can't do it? and your fiance is 17? she's not even legal!
2006-08-09 07:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how u feel about it. if u know u can get a decent enough job to have a baby then u can do whateva u want and find a partner that wants the same. i know the exact feelin because i want a baby now and im only 15 but i really really really want a baby but my boyfriend says he wants to be able to give the child everything. so i went to realize that it would be better that way then havin a baby in this crazy world with no way to provide for it. Anyway sorry for the story but thats my point
2006-08-09 14:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by bxshorty064 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are that old, you should not take on a young child. Consider adopting an older child who really needs someone, of the same race, of course. Older children are hard to place and easy to get.
2006-08-09 14:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
adobt a child... there are so many kids who r unluck in this life... u can make it up for them...
2006-08-10 08:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
adopt
2006-08-09 13:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by Highroller 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋