Family & Relationships - 9 August 2006

im gonna try to put as much info as possible. so somehwere in april, i really like this girl. i even asked her out pretty stupidly. left a note and all. couple days later, shes in fl and leaves a text saying "she has too many thigns going on and she cant be with anyone righ tnow." now of course i was hurt but i didnt show it at all. i got better though throught my frosh year, but it just wasnt the same. we got really close again and i even began to like her. suddenly freakin today the worst possible thing happened. she just started dating htis other guy that she was really close too. and to think i had the chance? like i didnt care at first over the summer, but now i feel like crap that she didnt choose me and seh chose him. and this girl is like the first girl ive fell for this bad. shes amazing and its so tough saying for me to forget her. yea i made a promise awhile ago after she sent the txt, that if she goes out with someone else, i shouldnt give her a chance anymore. what do ido?

2006-08-09 13:49:17 · 11 answers · asked by some jersey kid 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a semi- attractive (If I do say so and I do) female. All on my profile it states what I do not do. Still I get seven or eight guys every now and again trying to get the one night stand hook up connection. I am at an age where I have truthfully moved on from all of that. To boot more than a few don't even look good and the one's that do look okay think that I am going to give it up. I am beginning to ask myself what gives. In all fairness if any of them approached me on the street I might date one or two but not with the sex only commitment going. I am at a lost and wondering where are the quality men and how do I find one?

2006-08-09 13:48:59 · 15 answers · asked by calmlikeatimebomb 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 13:48:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for being a virgin until you get married. Would u do it?

If yes would would u want?

2006-08-09 13:48:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 13:47:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-09 13:46:41 · 4 answers · asked by heartbreaker 1 in Friends

I hate it! Especially if there is no attraction.

2006-08-09 13:46:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I previously submited a question about how my wife up and left after being married with me for about 3 months, she said little arguments and the responsibility of being married where getting to be to much, and she took my 17 month old daughter with her and left, Over the past several weeks I have seen a counsler by myself to see what I could change to fix our problems and my wife just told me i need time to think. I ask her straight up if there was someone else. she assured me NO WAY. Today I found 2 love ntes in her car from a guy she works with and one she hadnt given him yet. They basically said that they were all in love with eachother and it was hard they couldnt see eachother right now like they want to ect and all kind of s***..Now she has freaked out cause she is caught, wanted to talk to me about it ect. I do love my wif, but this crushes me. Anybody got any advice on what to do? or maybe what i should tell her .

2006-08-09 13:46:07 · 27 answers · asked by alawhitesnake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Once you have dated one your hooked. Now i can't find one around 40

2006-08-09 13:45:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Every time I tried to get out of this another site poped up. My Teenage Grandaughter and her little sister play on my computer how do I stop this from happening and why did it happen. I am very pissed off right now.

2006-08-09 13:45:43 · 8 answers · asked by Susie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

First of all, I am a 24 year old attractive clean guy; in great shape (I body build almost every day). There is this 43 year old Asian woman at work that I am developing an ever growing crush on. It’s getting so bad I can’t even think about her without becoming really aroused. It all started when I caught her staring at me. At first I shrugged it off as nothing because she is married. I mentioned to a friend at work that I found her attractive. He informed me that he heard that she is getting/going through a divorce (She still wears her ring?!) Any way, it started with her and I accidentally running into each other from behind blind corners at work. Sharing smiles and laughing as we passed by. We started playing eye games in the lunch room. We always seem to sit away from each other with are different groups of friends, but we will position are selves to where we can see one another... and we will share intense gazes that last from 1-5 seconds.. Until one day she stopped, so I took that as a hint and decided it would be best to leave it alone. I came back to work today with full intention of avoiding the eye game. I look up and she is staring at me harder than ever, I find my heart racing and I am becoming aroused. I can’t help but return the lustful gaze. We share these glances back and forth when ever we have the chance and can handle how deeply intense they are.


When I am away from her, I find my self fantasizing about walking up to her; looking in her gorgeous dark mysterious eyes and kissing her soft proudly lips…breathing heavily as we taste each other deeply; wandering trembling hands exploring each others bodies. We continue, groping, kissing and licking with so much passion I get dizzy just thinking about it.

So, as I was leavening the parking lot of work today, are eyes were locked once again. So, I smiled and waved to her…she blinked three times fast, looked at the ground and ignored me??? I don’t understand, what was that all about. Is she being shy? Oh god, could I just have misinterpreted a staring problem…lol I hope I am not creeping her out. I don’t know what to do, I am going to try and ignore these emotions and avoid eye contact again. We haven’t even really talked to each other. I don’t know how to approach, or if she even wants me to? Ahhhhh!!!! Most of all why am I so attracted to this much older woman?

2006-08-09 13:45:32 · 9 answers · asked by MatureAsianFetish 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 13:45:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Once you have dated one your hooked. Now i can't find one around 40

2006-08-09 13:45:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok! In the past I've dated guys who always made the first move when it came to anything sexual. My current boyfriend said he wont make the first move. I don't know if it's becasue he's shy or becasue he's a virgian. If it's because he's a virgian he has made it clear that he's ready to "lose" it. What do I do?

2006-08-09 13:44:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No dumb answers please, what are your top 5 reasons that makes your mom so great?

2006-08-09 13:44:39 · 31 answers · asked by It's Me 2 in Family

well if she dosen't want 2 listen she's says bye then click the fone in my face then 2day she calls me and says we need to talk and tells me i need to cahnge my attitude or she dosen't think we should be friend and we've been fried since the 4th grade now in the 6th goin to tha7th wat should i do? i feel like she's not there for me anymore

2006-08-09 13:44:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does any one no what love means cause i dont no what it means ? plz help `

2006-08-09 13:43:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my moms friend has a who is like 13 and she wants to know how to tell her about it and how it will like really hurt her first time.. any advice on how to tell her?

2006-08-09 13:43:27 · 1 answers · asked by jessica t 1 in Family

2006-08-09 13:43:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Uhhg. So I'm new to this highschool..(I'm a sophomore)..and I'm so nervous around everyone. And I haven't met anyone yet..how can I make some friends without being nervous?

2006-08-09 13:43:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I never thought it would come to this but my wife and I have been married going on 11 yrs. and I just cant deal with her anymore. We have 3 kids that I love to pieces and have tried to hold out as long as I can just for their benifit but I cant go on any longer. I wont poor you with details because I know it goes both ways. I just am not attracted to her anymore because she has just let herself go and doesnt care anymore how she looks plus she cant keep a job to help out with bills and doesnt care about helping out around the house since she doesnt work. How much does a divorce cost someone and what happens to the kids? I know each state is different but I was just wondering? Thanks

2006-08-09 13:43:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

His B-Day is in a week but im not to surewhat to give him? Help me out here...........?

2006-08-09 13:42:48 · 17 answers · asked by babe37 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend i like(not sure about love) but he is going to fast for me. hes really serious about it and i'm to scared to tell him how i feel cause i really don't wanna hurt his feelings. Any advice?

2006-08-09 13:42:14 · 6 answers · asked by boyhunter21 1 in Singles & Dating

im married and im 3 months pregnet and my husband dont want to have noth to do with me now?

2006-08-09 13:42:09 · 44 answers · asked by cici 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-09 13:42:07 · 26 answers · asked by THE 2 in Singles & Dating

Talk to me people. IM me if you love Allen Iverson and the Detroit Pistons!

2006-08-09 13:42:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Talk to him, give him signals, stare at him, etc.?

2006-08-09 13:41:49 · 9 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 13:41:46 · 13 answers · asked by Joana Paula F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im married and im 3 months pregnet and me and my husband dont want to have noth to do with me now?

2006-08-09 13:41:13 · 2 answers · asked by cici 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-09 13:41:09 · 6 answers · asked by Antman Almighty 2 in Singles & Dating