Ok! In the past I've dated guys who always made the first move when it came to anything sexual. My current boyfriend said he wont make the first move. I don't know if it's becasue he's shy or becasue he's a virgian. If it's because he's a virgian he has made it clear that he's ready to "lose" it. What do I do?
2006-08-09 13:44:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems you're going to have to be the 'teacher' where this part of your relationship is concerned :). It can be a bit scary, especially if you're not accustomed to initiating the sexual side of your relationships.
Try helping him explore his passionate side and indulge in the fun opportunity of being 'leader' in the bedroom at least temporarily :D.
Good luck :).
2006-08-09 16:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be assertive and make the first move. He may be shy. Just because men normally make the first move there is nothing wrong with the woman making it first, thats just so stereotipcal.
2006-08-09 20:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready, make a move. if you are concerned about taking his virginity then you should talk to him about it before hand. He could get really attached to you if you are whom he loses his virginity to so if that is the case, you may want to talk to him about it so you don't get yourself into something more serious than you would like.
2006-08-09 20:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are not about sex. There are guys that would rather get to know you before they get in the sheet with you. You should be happy that he's not just trying to bone and bounch. Just take it slow. if it's ment to happen it will happen
2006-08-09 20:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Meli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put on some Barry White and you make the first move.
2006-08-09 20:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move
2006-08-09 20:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by Cathy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move- and make it a night he'll never forget!
2006-08-09 20:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go ahead a make the move shoot he's your boyfriend so just do it don't be a wussy lol jk
2006-08-09 20:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by iLoVeKeELo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's a virgin...be his first. he'll remember you forever. If he's shy...take charge and take him !!
2006-08-09 20:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by Duckjuice3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait until the time is right and u know hes the one for you.dont do it with just everyone and please be safe
2006-08-09 20:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl93005@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋