im married and im 3 months pregnet and my husband dont want to have noth to do with me now?
2006-08-09 13:42:09 · 44 answers · asked by cici 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him that his said "i do" and ment it forever through better and WORSE he should love you no matter what. If he doesnt realize this than kick him out and take care of yourself, he's not really in love with you.
2006-08-09 13:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a crazy thing. What do you mean? Make him stick if he doesnt okay let him go im sure that through time he would want to look at the baby and thats when you pay back big time. If thats not the guy someone would come along. Dont worry but try your best to got through your pregancy and have your baby dont let nothing stop you. Good Luck May God Bless You.
2006-08-09 13:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by shorty Peraza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of times when a man finds out he's going to be a dad he takes time out in his own head to think it through. He may be thrilled about the baby but terrified at the thought that his whole life is going to change forever. Women get irrational sometimes when they're pregnant, & alot of men act strangely during the pregnancy too. Not to mention that now he's forced to see you as someones mother & not just his sexy wife. Most guys snap out of it if not before the birth then when they hold their baby for the first time. Give him a little time to adjust. good luck & congratulations.
2006-08-09 13:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by missy202011 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could sit down and talk to him about this. He could be having troubles adjusting to his new role with imminent fatherhood. This freaks some guys out. Maybe he's afraid that things will change between you once the baby is born. Pregnancy is such a life altering and powerful experience for both the mother and father. Talk to him about what he is feeling and why and give him support. He needs to be here for you as well. Good luck to you.
2006-08-09 13:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by buddhawoman32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this dude doesnt get his **** together in a real big hurry you need to dump him and go after child support. As a man I am truly sorry that this sack of **** is doing this to you. Not ALL men are like that, please dont forget that. What you need to do is work on you so you can provide and be everything this child needs. Wanna make him go crazy?Dump him, find a good man that makes you happy and kick this dude to the curb and make it obvious you dont want him, need him, or really give a crap if he is even around.
2006-08-09 14:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by congoelevator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, drop him. He should be estatic that you're pregnant, a baby is a beautiful thing. If any family member can take you in, please jump at the opportunity. This "husband" of yours has no idea what he'll be missing. Just make sure, you get yourself a job if you don't have one, and get prepared for the baby. Oh, and see your ob/gyn, or just go to planned parenthood. Its always important to get checked on when pregnant. Good luck in the future, and congragulations on the baby.
2006-08-09 13:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by gravytrain036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about that. That is very heartbreaking. It sounds to me like counseling is needed. If he refuses, I would suggest that you go yourself so that you can get some advice and help coping
I know that it is very hard especially with a new baby on the way.
I hope that all works out for you.
Hang in there
2006-08-09 13:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of women that raise children as single parents. During this time while you are carrying life inside of you you need to only be concentrated on that. You just stay in prayer and get counseling if you need to. But under no circumstance should you have to tolerate his nonsense from him while you are through a delicate time in your life. I want you to check out this website and see if it can answer some questions for you. Take care of yourself and god bless you. I really hope this has helped.
http://www.christianwomentoday.com/womenmen_marriage/
2006-08-09 13:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an abortion. Unless you can field the expenses and responsibilities of raising a human being, which your fetus is not. Having taken care of this, remove your husbands cock with a rusty hack saw. Slowly. Tell him Jack says: "Hi!".
2006-08-09 13:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it will be hard but you have to be strong for you and the baby and if that is how he is going to be get divorced it is hard to be a single mom but god decided to bless you with a baby your husband will be the one missing out in the end!
2006-08-09 13:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, That's a bad situation. If you are going to keep the baby , make sure you can collect alimony and child support from him. It sounds like he is really immature. Best Wishes to you!
2006-08-09 13:47:58 · answer #11 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋