im gonna try to put as much info as possible. so somehwere in april, i really like this girl. i even asked her out pretty stupidly. left a note and all. couple days later, shes in fl and leaves a text saying "she has too many thigns going on and she cant be with anyone righ tnow." now of course i was hurt but i didnt show it at all. i got better though throught my frosh year, but it just wasnt the same. we got really close again and i even began to like her. suddenly freakin today the worst possible thing happened. she just started dating htis other guy that she was really close too. and to think i had the chance? like i didnt care at first over the summer, but now i feel like crap that she didnt choose me and seh chose him. and this girl is like the first girl ive fell for this bad. shes amazing and its so tough saying for me to forget her. yea i made a promise awhile ago after she sent the txt, that if she goes out with someone else, i shouldnt give her a chance anymore. what do ido?
2006-08-09 13:49:17 · 11 answers · asked by some jersey kid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... sadly you seem not to be one of the lucky guys who will get the love at first sight.
However you should look at the bright side of the situation, hey at least she is still your friend! And if you really cherish her. Be her best friend! Be her buddy. Of course while she is dating the other guy, you can be a listening ear for her. Help her with her problems. If you believe in God, trust in Him as he will lead you. And who knows you may be dateing her friend who could be even hotter than her!
Forgetting about her is one thing, but just throwing her one side is another. If you forget about her, you are forgetting the crush you have on her. Not forgetting her in person. You still can be her best friend and buddy. Even thought both of you may never get married. Be her light when she is in the dark.
Of course if you two still manage to get together and get married. Then good for you. =)
Just msg me if you still have doubts...
Cheers!
2006-08-09 14:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by THE ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly bro, you will realize this as you get older. In the bars and the malls, even the biggest pimps get rejected everyday. For every 10 girls you find attractive, ask out or say what’s up to, only one will like you back. I was always a cool guy on the inside, but when I was in high school, I was a short, zity, scrawny guy with big ears. Now with the help of a little plastic surgery (on the ears) working out everyday and gaining some confidence; most of those girls I wanted in high school want me now. And the funny thing is, I don’t want a damn thing to do with them. By the time I grew up and changed, they were used up over and over again. My advice to you, find one of the nerdy girls in school with an ok smile and a nice body. Because those are the ones that will end up being hot in few years.
2006-08-09 14:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by MatureAsianFetish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...........i am going threw the EXACT same thing Its scary! Well, i once really liked this guy. i mean really liked him. Five minuets before class would start we would talk and talk and he seemed like he was really into me....I was so exited when he told me he was starting to like me! But then Hannah showed up......Suddenly they where going out! I had to sit in that class room for a year and watch then flirt and talk, then when the bell would ring at the end of class they would walk away holding hands...It cut me deep.....I thought the same thing. "I could never have a chance with him either, can I?" i asked myself.......Well the year came and went and one day at Hastings, I saw him....i cannot tell you how hard my heart jumped in my chest......*thunk!* Well I said "Hey!" and walked right over. He hugged me and would not let me go.......It was like floating on air.....Well we talked 4 a while then he left but I still had him on yahoo im........So we started chatting again....i guess the point I'm try ing to make is to stick with it.....though they seem heavy now, you never know what could happen in the future......Turns out they broke up! and i did not yell at him for breaking my heart or give him dirty looks....I stuck by in case he ever needed me...and guess what..............................It worked...just be her friend 4 now......
keep me updated on what happens! ( i hope i dont get in trubble 4 this! yahoo people dont kick me off.!!!).........i hope i helped
2006-08-09 14:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by KeLs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow support her decision u no i no how hard thats gunna be but would u ratherbe friends or not be nothing at all cuz if they break and u guys r still friends ur gunna be the one she goes to and ur gunna be there thru hard times sometimes girls dont realize that they like there best friends but if u guys arent meant to be togeather than some how u guys will be togeather but for right now u half to move on i hate to say that to u cuz i feel ur pain but thats the only thing u realy can do im sorry i wish u the best of luck if u need more help email me k
ELIZABETH
2006-08-09 13:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go.....just let her go. It's as simple as that. The same thing happened to me a few months ago...just let her go. It will save you a world of hurt and time. I'm not going to tell you that there are plenty girls out there because there may not be girls out there like her whatever it is about her that has you love struck but you'll find somebody who is into you cause she's not. Sorry.
2006-08-09 13:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy isn't properly worth ten of you. he's under you. don't experience unhappy or injury by applying him, forget approximately him, you're actually not a fat slut and you will locate somebody plenty greater perfect than him. then you will ask your self why you ever cared approximately him interior the 1st place. i think of you are able to see a school counsellor, reducing is a foul and addictive habit.
2016-11-04 05:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not available to you. If she agrees to be your girlfriend it probably won't last, or maybe she'll cheat. I know it hurts, but maybe it would hurt more if you got involved with her and then it didn't last. Emotions can be such a pain sometimes! But try getting to know some other girls, not getting too serious, because you're not really ready for that yet.
2006-08-09 13:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, quit being so hard on yourself. It sounds like she didn't like you to begin with. When girls don't like you at first, they don't change their minds and start liking you. You should forget about her and move on! Good luck with the next girl!
2006-08-09 14:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let her see where this new relationship goes. If she wanted something with you she would've started it. There are many girls out there that just want to be friends with guys.
2006-08-09 14:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by Gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man join the club. i feel like the ladies are not feeling me. screw her. find a woman who'll appreciate you. i've been rejected so much i think i have a story in line to sell. do not give up on love.
2006-08-09 13:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋