Family & Relationships - 9 August 2006

Why is it all the nice girls who i always like are taken,does that bother other people in the same situation

2006-08-09 19:32:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my first boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and I'm almost 21. And everything is great between us, we already have learned listen, compromise and trust to solve problems...but I just want to know to people actually think that I'm being naive in thinking that me and him might just go the distance?

Is it possible that two people that love eachother and have such an understanding for eachother could last for a long time? Or am I just being naive?

Is anyone out there, still with thier first true love?

2006-08-09 19:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonstar 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i really liked this guy Matt and he asked me out sooo now we are like toegether but now that i have him its different its like i dont like him anymore and im interested in other guys be truthfull i wanna knoe the honest to god truth am i being selfish is this normal or what?

2006-08-09 19:32:31 · 7 answers · asked by xsweetypiex 3 in Singles & Dating

What is a good list of love songs? Best list gets best answer.

2006-08-09 19:31:40 · 7 answers · asked by egg0rz 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I am in love emotionally with one of my friend (girl), but I don't feel any physical attraction, I don't feel the pump in my heart when I see her.
But I still feel jaleous and pocessive around her.
We haven't known each other for long, and always felt this way about her.
She seems like the girl that is very friendly and has lots of guy friends, so I don't think she likes me anyway.
I think about her at night, but I wouldn't masturbate to her or anything, lol.
What do I do?

2006-08-09 19:30:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There have been many instances where a young girl gets sexually involved with man of double her age. Is it love or foolishness on part of girl?

2006-08-09 19:30:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, my b/f jst broke up with me n he jst want 2 b friends. Is that a good idea??? why would he want that??? what is the possibility of being friends for a period and then getting back together, cuz that's what i'd really like to happen......

2006-08-09 19:29:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this guy, who i think is interested in me, but im not sure because he has a girlfriend. but anyway he stares at me and smiles alot, he kinda notices everything i do, from the way i dress to how i do my hair, and he also says nice stuff, which most of the time embarasses me, but its very sweet,
anyway i need to make sure he is interested and i am not the kinda person to make a move on a guy who has a girlfriend, so what are the signs a guy is into you.

2006-08-09 19:26:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my mom is trying to change everything about me and it hurts me but she doens't know that. today i caught her red handed listening to my phone convo with my friend. and she thinks my friends are influencing me..like all the time..but i dont think they do. they're just my friends...why can't she accept the way i dress? and it hurts me when she does something like that. and she thinks that i dress like a slut..well i don't. it's just different from the way she dresses. so what can i do? cause she's been doing this for a while and i'm really sick of it. Help me! or just take me away! do anything! lol..but it really feels like she doesn't love me anymore and i'm kinda starting to hate her for doing all those horrible things to me.

2006-08-09 19:25:36 · 9 answers · asked by wendy 2 in Family

Just curious.

2006-08-09 19:25:14 · 5 answers · asked by thevoicesjustgotlouder 2 in Singles & Dating

By this I mean is there anyone who feels that it's hard to commit fully in a relationship because you still want to have fun and muck around whilst your still young?

2006-08-09 19:24:50 · 8 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

you give up?

2006-08-09 19:24:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering, because I'm kinda mean sometimes, just for the heck of it, teehee.

2006-08-09 19:23:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Through a discussion with someone, I recently learned that my husband of 3.5 years has been lying to me over the course of our 5 year relationship about MAJOR issues. He lied about his college and graduate education -- turns out he has neither and worse he has a child that he did not tell me about. We have an 18 month old but I cannot trust him and I don't believe we will have a marriage after my learning about these lies. He has asked for forgiveness but I honestly don't think I can do it. I am highly educated and he knew that I sought an educated partner before we married. It's not him and worse he lied about it. I think the lying warrants a divorce but I'm torn?

2006-08-09 19:21:16 · 60 answers · asked by zerocreativity_72 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why does it my boyfriend see it as a pressure on him when....?
I tell him that I am afraid of loosing him if he goes to work abroad? He said he hasn't got the job yet and I already see it as a problem. He got upset with me because he thinks I want to influence his decision but that's not the case. I just worry about loosing him? Why do men see it so differently? He said that he regrets he told me all about it. I feel bad now. I never meant to come across as a selfish girlfriend but I wanted to find out if he actually considers me? He said I pressure him about it? I am 28. He is 26. We are both living in Europe in 2 different countries already. He would like to go to New York City just to work for a while to see how it is there like. I live alone in my country, he lives in his.. we visit each other once a month.Nothing is for sure but I have noticed that he talks about it a lot. He got angry with me last night for telling him that I worry about loosing him. What should I do now?

2006-08-09 19:21:03 · 10 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Singles & Dating

wut can i do 2 help me stay awake all night 2night and not b tired? push ups?sit ups? eat sumthing? ne thing??
p.s
im not drinking coffee thats blech! lol and im only 12 so dont say like alchohal

2006-08-09 19:20:40 · 11 answers · asked by Krista H. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 19:20:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 19:20:36 · 3 answers · asked by Jodygirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hey guys do u prefer somker or non-smoker girls? drinker or non-drinker girls? virgin or unvirgin ones??? i'm curious to know :) and tell me why?

2006-08-09 19:19:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister (she's a year and a half older than me) beats me at everything in every way. She's smarter, my mom and dad love her more, she's really popular, etc. She over shadows me in every aspect of what I do. She know's she's better than me, and it's horrible. She hawks over her wisdom all the time, laughs when I can't do something or say something stupid, and she just rubs it in every day! What should I do?

2006-08-09 19:19:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to get married to someone. He is the son of our family friends.My parents know that we are dating.But as a family we are not preapred for my marriage. i am old enough to be married. i just need to tell them.

2006-08-09 19:19:45 · 7 answers · asked by shubika r 1 in Weddings

Okay so there is this guy that I love like more than anything ever. He is like so amazing & sweet to me.. but he lives like really far away from me & I NEVER see him. I love him so much, but I hate not being able to not see him. I want to be with him, but I don't know if I should because it's long distance.. He is the only person who actually understands me & what I've went through & I love him.. just the distance thing sucks majorly.. Should I still go out with him?

2006-08-09 19:18:03 · 24 answers · asked by Chels 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 19:17:59 · 16 answers · asked by srini 2 in Friends

that finds joy in calling you and telling you about her bathroom activity? I know she doesn't really like me all that much but that's just nasty and she honestly doesn't think there is anything wrong with it. Worst part of it, my husband does it too. Like mother like son I guess. But what did I do to deserve such "dirty" talk?

2006-08-09 19:16:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Intelligence in your poem means more than trying to get me with lustful rhymes.

2006-08-09 19:15:32 · 4 answers · asked by NuTTeR 2 in Singles & Dating

VR 2gother 4 past 5 years & this time want it 2b special anything bet 500-800/- something useful to him so flowers & chocs are out

2006-08-09 19:15:30 · 11 answers · asked by Heista 4 in Friends

2006-08-09 19:14:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

really troubled me when I had a baby last year, they were relatives (close ones), they came across as selfish and strange, even though I have tried to forgive I am not that great a person, I cant help but hold a grudge and whenever good things happen to them I get so upset, life is so unfair, they dont deserve an ounce of happiness. They only live for themselves and are of no consequence to anyone, while all my other friends and relatives are kind, giving people that live a part of thier lives for others. the question is how to manage such negative thoughts, I am an otherwise good person, I hate this about myself.

2006-08-09 19:12:54 · 16 answers · asked by noogney 4 in Family

I am trying to get our 21 month old ready for the "big girl bed" and am having a hard time. We have a 10 monthold as well so getting sleep is already rare. Any advice as to how to make the transition easier?

2006-08-09 19:12:14 · 3 answers · asked by suzy 2 in Family

Hiya to one & all
OK here's my prob and I'd like only honest answers
I have been good frnds with a girl in my class for the last 2 yrs
Since we were the best debaters of ur school we always got to go to competitions together and thus got to know each other very well
We know each other so well that we can almost predict each others emotions & thoughts
Now this girl is he one who likes hot dudes and I'm not exactly Mr. Hercules
She always likes to be in the limelight
She's had a break up with her boyfrnd of 2 yrs 2 months ago & is saying that she doesn't want to have anything to do with boys anymore
Problem is that in 2 months I might have to leave my country to study abroad
However I once want to tell her what I feel bout her
I can't live all my life with the regret of not having her no my feelings
Do u think that is a good idea ????
And if u say yes then when should I tell her?? right now or when I'm about to leave
I really love this girl and haven't looked at another for 2 yrs
Help!

2006-08-09 19:12:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends