Okay so there is this guy that I love like more than anything ever. He is like so amazing & sweet to me.. but he lives like really far away from me & I NEVER see him. I love him so much, but I hate not being able to not see him. I want to be with him, but I don't know if I should because it's long distance.. He is the only person who actually understands me & what I've went through & I love him.. just the distance thing sucks majorly.. Should I still go out with him?
2006-08-09 19:18:03 · 24 answers · asked by Chels 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in a long distance relationship and it was really difficult. If you truly love the guy (just as I did) you will constantly miss him. You will feel upset and lonely and you would feel as if you could die just to see him once more. Long distant relationships is VERY HARD as you can see from all of the other posts. In the end the relationship won't really last. Most long distant relationship end pretty quickly if not just end with a depressing heartbreak. If you love him so much take a chance. Maybe he's the one for you. Good luck if you do decide to go out with him.
2006-08-17 13:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by aznangel5492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Chelsy.
well I'm in the same position u r in.my girl too lives east n i live to the west. well to be frank dint drop if u love u madly. Cox me being a guy i still have these negative thoughts about my girl oh Wat she is Dion who is the friend i hear while i was talk in to her. Here trust comes in and plays a big big part. U have to BTU sometimes certain situations comes in where the brain goes all weary. all i can say is love truly madly deeply.. but remember dint get bossed . like me .. it could give away negative vibes when Ur all alone and thinking.
2006-08-17 19:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by nitin_saldana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he says and does about the situation should be a guide to you. Don't get your hopes up. Long distance relationships are a bad bet.
I hope you're not confusing his empathy for what you've been through with romantic love.
2006-08-09 19:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i live in oregon,and my bf is in cali. hes famous [dont ask lol] so i never get 2 c him. we keep in touch by phone and internet, and things r going great. i luv him 2 death and we've been 2gether 4 a year! things r going great, and if u really luv this guy, i think u should give it a chance. stop looking at the negetives, look at the positives. bets of luck! :]
2006-08-09 19:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Krista H. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the master of your life. But the odds are not good that long distance relationships work.
2006-08-09 19:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT A QUESTION ONLY YOU C AN ANSWER, LONG DISTANT RELATIONSHIP ARE HARD TO KEEP GOING WITH
EVERYTHING THAT GOING ON. I WOULD JUST SEE HOW
IT GO, TAKE IT SLOW AT FIRST, BECAUSE IF THE DISTANT
WILL ALWAY BE A PROBLEM THEN MAYBE IT MAY NOT BE]
T0 GOOD TO GET SO INVOLVED WITH HIM. SINCE YOU KNOW WHA THE OUTCOME MAY BE.
2006-08-17 17:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are horrible. He probably understands all the girls.
2006-08-09 19:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by John D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! of course you should....distance cant stop love...it sounds so corny but its true hun! I totally had that happen to me before...it'll all work out...BUT! if you start to have feelings for another guy make sure you tell mr.distance...it'd be plain wrong just to string him along for nothing...
2006-08-09 19:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by hannahrosey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance don't tend to work very well... if you love him, keep that safe... stay his friend.. and if you happen to end up in the same general area and are both free, then get together...
2006-08-09 19:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lng distance nevr rlly work out. i had the same problem and not being able to see him rlly got to me so it ended. i say jus be frnds and if its rlly meant to be thn u will find a way to be wit him. gud luck to u.
2006-08-09 19:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by black_gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋