ok, my b/f jst broke up with me n he jst want 2 b friends. Is that a good idea??? why would he want that??? what is the possibility of being friends for a period and then getting back together, cuz that's what i'd really like to happen......
2006-08-09 19:29:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look honey i broke up with my bf and just wanted to be friends and we are jsut friends and its always gonnna stay that way but.........it depends on the situation.
2006-08-09 19:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by xsweetypiex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to distance yourself from him until you have your feelings under control. Take some time to yourself for personal healing. Once you can think about him or see him without feeling sad or hurt, you're ready to be friends with him. Tell him that you need some time to heal. If he's willing to wait and give you space until you're ready, then he does want to keep you as a friend. If not, it'll be good to separate yourself from him...and don't go back! Hope everything works out.
2006-08-09 19:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_lil_cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very likely. But for ALL the wrong reasons. If he gets back together with you it will probably just be because he wants something you shouldn't be giving a guy like that. I would suggest being his friend if hes a good guy. But be wary and dont get taken advantage of.
2006-08-09 19:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step away from this person. He doesn't care enough...plain and simple. His wanting to be just friends more than likely means he know you still care and he can use you when it suits him.
Move on...maintain your self respect and not let yourself be vulnerable to a loosing situation. Love yourself first. There are many out there who can give you much more...let it happen.
2006-08-09 19:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just pulled the same thing on my b/f...I just want to be friends with him because i like who he is.....we had great times together and he has always been there when i needed him(even when we weren't dateing)....To lose someone so important in my life.....i just i couldn't do it. But i couldn't date him either... so we're working on the 'just friends' thing... I think it will work out ight...
2006-08-09 19:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by aier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants a "cushion"... he has something else lined up better than he thinks you are, but if that goes south, he needs a fall-back position...
here is your decision: tell him you'll be his friend, but get yourself someone else (male or female) who loves you and respects you (cos he doesn't)... then when he starts saying "i want you back", tell him you've moved on... that should really annoy him!!!! :D
2006-08-09 19:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Bad Idea. Why would you want to let him have his cake and eat it too. Find someone else. Trust me on this.
2006-08-09 19:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up! Been there done it!Only makes for heartache.
2006-08-09 19:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Frogmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....he's done. you need time to get over him then maybe you friends. i'm sorry, but he probably won't get back with you.
2006-08-09 19:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by Betty Sue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, cuz he doesnt hate u, it depends on the guy
2006-08-09 19:35:23 · answer #10 · answered by LaidBack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋