I think I am in love emotionally with one of my friend (girl), but I don't feel any physical attraction, I don't feel the pump in my heart when I see her.
But I still feel jaleous and pocessive around her.
We haven't known each other for long, and always felt this way about her.
She seems like the girl that is very friendly and has lots of guy friends, so I don't think she likes me anyway.
I think about her at night, but I wouldn't masturbate to her or anything, lol.
What do I do?
2006-08-09 19:30:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure. it's possible. sometimes...emotional love can transcend anything physical. just like how sometimes people have ugly insides all of a sudden don't look so beautiful on the outside anymore.
2006-08-09 19:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by paoakalani 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, I understand now. what's more effective major? Being loved bodily or being loved emotionally? Emotionally. Do you sense like you're loved more effective bodily or emotionally? bodily. Bonus: Why? a million. If someone loves you emotionally meaning they see previous each thing on the exterior, they're in a position to work out who you're while not having to break you down. With being loved bodily you're in straightforward words renowned for a way you look. This man or woman would not actual care about you, they merely love what they see that's no longer about the style of man or woman you're... that's superficial "love". 2. I actually have loved a lot of human beings on an emotional element and that's continuously stayed strictly actual with them.
2016-11-23 18:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by rolfes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that the women you have met until now lack the qualities your friend has??
Does she possess the qualities your looking for in a mate?
Or do you look so much up to her that you confuse admiration to falling in love?
If your friendship is new, could it be that your are jealous of her spending much of her time with other people and not with you or that you might loose her friendship over someone Else's?
When we fall in-love with someone we think physically towards that person. But when we love someone we love their spirit first ...as this love develops it could lead to a partnership, but only time will show...I know couples that were friends for many years, discussed or even approved each others love affairs (!) and then one day found out that they were meant for each other, got married and live happily ever after!!
Time in some situations is the best answer...
2006-08-09 19:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by elena K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to the main part of the question is "yes". Here in India, we have a belief that your uncles daughter is your future wife and some families promote this feeling from childhood itself. In such cases the boy and girl love each other but is not allowed any physical contacts till marraige. I have seen several suc incidents.
Now to the second part, since you are not sure she loves you, your love is only one sided. You are still not sure whether you love her platonically or sexually. Have a mutual agreement and then think of all these mental/physical love!!!
2006-08-09 19:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This a common feeling. When you meet someone very nice, you do wish all good things to happen to her, and to protect her whenever possible. At the same time, you also ensure that you dont invade her personal space. The physical attraction does not come into picture. Even when you think of her, maybe just the smiling face, or a captivating moment is what comes to the mind.
Even, I have such thoughts about a friend of mine. It is natural and you dont have to do anything about it.
2006-08-09 19:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by ks_anand_77 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's more kinds of love in the world than just the romantic stuff. Sounds more like you want to be her one and only Friend. But, if you were her one-and-only friend, she probably wouldn't be the same person that you wanted to be friends with in the first place, right?
Do you have more friends than just her? If you don't, you should get a few. It's easy enough to do; all you have to do is start doing something that you like to do, like ice skating, or dancing lessons; something like that. The people that you meet at these places will have something in common with you, so it won't be that hard to talk to them. Plus, you won't be thinking so much about your friend.
Give it a try; it can't hurt anything.
2006-08-09 19:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal L ™ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow...usually its the other way around.
I think you need to listen to you heart on this one...but it does whisper so listen closely...
Its hard to say..in a perfect world looks trully 100% wouldn't matter...but sadly it really does...I'm not saying it totally controls it...but attraction does play a pretty key role in a relationship. It seems like you are holding onto her for a reason...maybe you need to give it a shot and see if you will grow more attracted to her as you get to know her...but you'll never know unless you try...so I say give it a shot...you don't have much to lose.
2006-08-09 19:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by lanceh13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, and I have felt the same away about someone, however they were male. But dont worry, I think you are not in love with this girl. I think thier is something about her, that attracts you to her. Maybe she's really funny, or really smart, and you admire that in her. Just seems like you really appreciate her friendship and that you admire her. I dont think anythings wrong with you, or that your in love with her. Good Luck :o)
2006-08-09 19:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonstar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably love her like you would love your family! its the type of love that is very strong and has nothing to do with being physical or infatuation--its just the type of love you can get say between two best friends! there are many friends who would say they are soul mates but its not like they like eachother that way its just they feel close and a special bond
2006-08-09 19:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you're in love with her. you don't necessary have to feel physical attraction to the person you like, you don't need to feel like masturbating... isn't that the true definition of love? rather than infatuation or physical appeal. (=
2006-08-09 19:47:29 · answer #10 · answered by rachel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋