Family & Relationships - 9 August 2006

Why does it my boyfriend see it as a pressure on him when....?
I tell him that I am afraid of loosing him if he goes to work abroad? He said he hasn't got the job yet and I already see it as a problem. He got upset with me because he thinks I want to influence his decision but that's not the case. I just worry about loosing him? Why do men see it so differently? He said that he regrets he told me all about it. I feel bad now. I never meant to come across as a selfish girlfriend but I wanted to find out if he actually considers me? He said I pressure him about it? I am 28. He is 26. We are both living in Europe in 2 different countries already. He would like to go to New York City just to work for a while to see how it is there like. I live alone in my country, he lives in his.. we visit each other once a month.Nothing is for sure but I have noticed that he talks about it a lot. He got angry with me last night for telling him that I worry about loosing him. What should I do now?

2006-08-09 19:12:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and we broke up yesterday bcuz it wasnt working out but i still hav feelings for him and supposedly he does too..but theres this other girl and i asked him if he liked her and he said"noooo its not gana happen"but when i read a message between him and that girl it was all"i like u"and "i like u too" but he still says "its not gana happen i dont like her"and stuff like that and i dont rele wana stay with him bcuz all this is not worth it and i kno it. but i cant stop talking to him.its not easy at all. and also even if we did stop talking one of my best friends whos also my neighbor has a brother and his best friend is my ex and he comes over all the time so we would b seeing each other and we said that we wanted to stay friends but honestly i just wana stay away cuz im just so sick of it but i cant ... help?

2006-08-09 19:12:03 · 4 answers · asked by Priscilla 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 19:11:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, My ex and I are just friends, But recently he said something to me and now I'm all kinds of stressed. Ok it started like this I started a new job in a new city, and my boss doesn't like for us to carry our personal phones with us. So I usually turn mine off and leave it home, but yesterday I guess he was trying to call me and my phone was off and when I tried to call him when I got off he said he had been callin me and my phone was off! Then he started calling me a liar, and when I once again tried to explain to him what the situation is at my work he wouldn't listen. Now he won't talk to me, because he thinks I was with some guy. Then today when I was at work he sent me 3 nasty text messages, on one of them he called me a "Hoe". We are not together what is his problem? And why am I tripped out about it?

2006-08-09 19:10:39 · 8 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-09 19:10:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-09 19:09:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think it means nothing, but still feel uncomfortable doing with some. The whole kiss on the cheek thing, does it mean anything to anyone?

2006-08-09 19:08:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any boiz wanna friend to talk to. im single and looking. Just send me an e-mail at newyorkshorty_9595@yahoo.com. peace out.

2006-08-09 19:07:42 · 7 answers · asked by newyorkshorty_9595 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 19:07:06 · 31 answers · asked by thespeakeris tooloud 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in foster care all my life, & my foster family hate me, & they used 2 use me 4 my money & beat on me.

2006-08-09 19:07:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Options for Possible Wedding Colors:
1. Lots of different shades of Blue, White?

2. Turquoise, Aqua, Coral, White, Tan (Beach)?

3. Blue, Pink, Orange, Yellow, White (Sunset)?



Thanks for the help!

2006-08-09 19:05:52 · 19 answers · asked by ☼ lovethesun11 2 in Weddings

2006-08-09 19:04:59 · 9 answers · asked by LaidBack 2 in Singles & Dating

I made a girl give me a BJ after a night of drinking, I promised I wouldnt tell. Since Im a guy I told everyone I know, and now Im telling you. I think she is mad at me...what should I do?

2006-08-09 19:04:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 19:04:26 · 14 answers · asked by LILO 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to be 13 next month,but i like 14,15,and 16 year old boys Y???

2006-08-09 19:03:40 · 24 answers · asked by Nana 1 in Singles & Dating

yet when they see you when that person is not around they act like they are glad ,call me stupid but i have never been around anymore than my wife who i knew ever liked me,

2006-08-09 19:02:05 · 7 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Friends

I know some girls who are always like " I don't get along with other girls I only have guys as friends" blablabla..Guys what do you think of girls like this? Do you like it or what? I would prefer a guy that gets along with other guys so he isn't just hanging around GIRLS all the time... let me know what u think:)

2006-08-09 19:02:01 · 18 answers · asked by chickadee372 1 in Friends

not solely speaking of dating, but in general

2006-08-09 19:00:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex gf was so indecisive, she never came up with any suggestions of what she wanted to do and instead would always reply "it's up to u", ended up leaving her cos she was so boring.

2006-08-09 19:00:55 · 9 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 19:00:42 · 6 answers · asked by Christian W 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, she's three years younger than me. She's very weak physically and not that big. She's 11, but her personality is very strong. Physically hurting her is very easy, and gets the message across firmly, but I don't like doing it because she ends up hating me, and her will makes her even harder to control the next time we disagree. I'd say I am a very rational person, and I always try the most rational soulutions. I try to use the peaceful solutions, and those are usually just telling on her. I hate doing that, because usually we fight over ridiculously small things, most often the computer. Telling on her just makes her view me as weak and pathetic. She always provokes me, and I warn her a million times, before I choose one of the two solutions. What I want to know is, is there a third solution that is any better than these to keep her under control, and by control, I mean just following the rules so we don't argue?

2006-08-09 19:00:42 · 2 answers · asked by maya 3 in Family

Even it can be a stupid questions it can hurt people's feelings by what they say I just don't know why people have to be mean i know I am in the real world

2006-08-09 19:00:23 · 12 answers · asked by sweet_star_smile 1 in Friends

mine is 16,f,tx

2006-08-09 18:59:55 · 20 answers · asked by jessica alba 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i am attracted to an unattractive guy.
I usually only date hot guys..who turn out to beshits. and now i find myself liking this soo not cute guy..i play flirt with him and everyone thinks its a joke...including him...but its not..
and i am a little embarrassed by this attraction. but cant stop how i feel..any suggestions??

2006-08-09 18:59:45 · 13 answers · asked by Em W. 4 in Singles & Dating

as what to get my boyfriend. or do for him.

2006-08-09 18:59:43 · 6 answers · asked by gotbubblez74 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi, my name is sheri and i'm 22 yaers old. I ran away from home when i was 13 yaers old, and i got hooked on drugs. i've been to rehab twice. but this past time i relapsed, i did it on my own!!
i guess wanted it bad enough.well, all i know how to do are the old fashioned things that wemon are supposed to do.[cook, clean,and try and raise my son. (he's 20 months)] anyway's, i got sober my 35 year old boyfriend hasn't kicked the habbit yet.we live with his mother. she pays for every thing. i try to help out as much as i can, cooking and cleaning the house, i try to work for her and put in my part, well because i ran away so young, i became homeless addicted to crack cocaine, here in miami, fl. i say that because i havn't seen nor even herd from any one in my family in almost 10 years. i have god, and the greatest gift i could ever recieve, my son. my boyfriend's abusive to me. physically, emotionally, mentally. i want to face my fear and go out on my own. i'm scared.
what do you sugest

2006-08-09 18:57:46 · 17 answers · asked by affluencesoul 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am almost 14 & my dad treats me like i'm nine!! I know it might have something to do with the fact that i don't see him very much, but I still see him enough that all the things i do (ex.; piercings, hair color, ect.) must be run by him before i can do any of it. I wanna get my belly botton pierced now,I have done all the reasearch, & i am ready to do it, the only thing stopping me is my dad says no & then wont give me a reason. Any suggestions on how to make him more aware of that I'm a teenager now & that he needs to be more open with me (by the way nothing too harsh I still have to get my new cell phone while I do this opening up thing!)

2006-08-09 18:57:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

some of you guys on here seem to be so sweet and down to earth...where the heck have you been hiding? lol well....I must go...good night my lovelies...I guess I should put a question down huh? ok....will you miss me? muah! <33

2006-08-09 18:57:30 · 10 answers · asked by hannahrosey 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-09 18:56:05 · 3 answers · asked by margaritaconnie 1 in Friends

I'M SEEKING KASHAAMI ASAD + SALIBA NAJIM FAMILIES IN LEBANON.

SALIBA Najim's family. Najim has 4 children. The 2 daughters names are Michellin (last heard of she got married with a french UN peacekeeper) and Caroline. They used to live in Cyprus in the 80's and then moved back to Lebanon after the war ended. Najim's village is situated in S. Lebanon.

KASHAAMI ASAD family. His wife's name is Jojette and they are living in the mountain area of Beirut.

I do not have any addresses or phone numbers.

Can anyone help me??

2006-08-09 18:55:44 · 4 answers · asked by elena K 1 in Friends