ok so i am attracted to an unattractive guy.
I usually only date hot guys..who turn out to beshits. and now i find myself liking this soo not cute guy..i play flirt with him and everyone thinks its a joke...including him...but its not..
and i am a little embarrassed by this attraction. but cant stop how i feel..any suggestions??
2006-08-09 18:59:45 · 13 answers · asked by Em W. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its nice you're attracted to him. he'll probably treat you better and be more grateful to have you as a gf. tell everyone else to mind their own business. be more forward with him so that he knows your serious. ask him out or something. explain to him that you want someone who will treat you respectfully and not be a jerk.
i hope it works out
2006-08-09 19:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by al 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of flirting with him and causing him embarrassment, why not invite him out for coffee or ice cream, and get to know him better? don't make it a "romantic" thing. Just be friendly and find out if you have any common interests. It may be that he's an excellent prospect -- maybe your pheronomes are compatible even though he's not great looking.
2006-08-09 19:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Marcella S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's something from the other side - lets take for example its me you are talking bout then what would i feel?
I would feel something fishy - i am surely up to getting used ?
What should you do ?
You should do something out of the box - dont care bout the world take him out lunch/dinner/movie anything - dont talk bout your feelings or any of the stuff thats going on in your minds instead try and learn and know him discuss everything under the sun but yourself or the two of you...
Rest will fall after...
All the best
2006-08-09 19:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by Myles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont see anything wrong if u continue 2 like him. Nothing to embarrass. Maybe he doesnt have a good looking, but u like him. That's enough! Hope ur relationship will lead to somewhere
2006-08-09 19:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Pumpkin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt care, As long as its the same personallity as mine and is fun xP if everyone else doesnt think hes attractive then wala, you win... No fear of him being taken =) Go for it champ. Nothing to worry about, who cares what others say xP MAKE EM SURPRISED! Good luck.
2006-08-09 19:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by Albel The Wicked 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just GO FOR IT!! Attraction is not something we can control...usually. Maybe there's something else about this guy that is absolutely fabulous. Follow your gut, don't listen to the shallow people in the world, they only bring you down.
2006-08-09 19:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Some guys personalities make them cute. There are alot of other features that can make a guy hot. His smile or his eyes. Even his personality. So I say go for it. Let him know you like him.
2006-08-09 19:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I gust like this guy also but he not attractive.Something about him gust makes me smile.I think he is Cinda cut.By the way Today is the first day he relay talk to me.hora for me.
2006-08-09 19:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks aren't everything so why be embarrassed by your attraction to this guy....make this guy's day and ask him out for a coffee.....and don't worry what other people think
2006-08-09 19:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by lippygloss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
explore your feelinjg with him a little more. flirt with him more and see if he ask you out. who knows where it may lead. however if you know that it could never be anything serious cos you are not attratced to him. dont pursue it any futher cos you will only hurt him
2006-08-09 19:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's to be embarrassed about?..Are you that young, that you don't understand that personality means so much more than looks?...
2006-08-09 19:06:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋