Ok, My ex and I are just friends, But recently he said something to me and now I'm all kinds of stressed. Ok it started like this I started a new job in a new city, and my boss doesn't like for us to carry our personal phones with us. So I usually turn mine off and leave it home, but yesterday I guess he was trying to call me and my phone was off and when I tried to call him when I got off he said he had been callin me and my phone was off! Then he started calling me a liar, and when I once again tried to explain to him what the situation is at my work he wouldn't listen. Now he won't talk to me, because he thinks I was with some guy. Then today when I was at work he sent me 3 nasty text messages, on one of them he called me a "Hoe". We are not together what is his problem? And why am I tripped out about it?
2006-08-09 19:10:39 · 8 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok it seems to me that he is just jealous...he has no right to call you a liar...and even if you were with another guy what's it to him? you two aren't together anymore and he needs to leave it alone. if i were you, i would stop talking to him...if he's going to disrespect you like that then he's not a friend
2006-08-09 19:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Shaw1Net6 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are wasting your time stressing on a guy who calls you a 'hoe' because??
He is an ex for a reason- let him know that.
You may not be able to talk to him- bc he thinks its a starting point being with you agian- and by you not calling him back he feels rejected.
2006-08-09 19:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful he's your ex. This is abuse. If you were still with him, I'd be advising you to RUN and get out of this relationship and away from this guy. You may think he's your ex but obviously he still thinks that he possesses you. Guys like this are in denial. He may believe that you and he are going to get back together. Drop this guy like a hot potato. He's a time bomb just waiting to go off.
2006-08-09 19:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Spiritual but not religious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that. Say " I told you the situation and if we are just friends than what do you care if I was with a guy and if you want more than that than I expect an apology and we'll discuss it but if you want to be with me you'd better get a grip on the psycho jealous crap!"
2006-08-09 19:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by cabinfeverjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. from his response it is obvious why he is your ex!!!! stop stressing , hes not worth it - most places of business, including the one I work out do not allow employess to have a cell phone, in-fact we are suppossed to keep our in our car or locker! text him back to say good bye!!!
2006-08-09 19:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by leo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your phone...have it on or off, at anytime day or night...it's none of his business...it's none of his business if you were f*cking someone and turned it off...do you maybe still have feelings for him? that's the only reason I can see for it stressing you out...
2006-08-09 19:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r stressin if he doesnt trust u then hes probably not right 4 u
2006-08-09 19:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BAD SIGNS! YOU SHOULD FIND OUT THE WARNING SIGNS FOR ABUSIVE MEN!
2006-08-09 19:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by Candy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋