Family & Relationships - 7 August 2006

I am a wonderful woman..i cook, clean, am kind to my man...and hey, i put out. My husband loves me very much, and treats me very well. I feel lucky to have found him. I do have one problem. He, like many other men, seems to think that porn is a given right, and that even tho it hurts my feelings and makes me feel insecure, he continues to indulge. After letting him know how I felt, he does do a good job of not making it obvious, which i appreciate....but, i hate just as much the sneaking around to look at it . Then I never know when i get home and he's "turned on" , if it's me (it used to be just me) or if he's all worked up from someone else. And it DOES matter. Am i being difficult...am i expecting something a man, any man, just can't give. To be the ONe and only desire ???

2006-08-07 07:20:54 · 25 answers · asked by shasta 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I’m a guy and have hit on women that had boyfriends before. I know that’s very bad! However there something about getting freaky with someone that is already taken extremely desirable. Does anyone else feel the same way about that? And why is that?

2006-08-07 07:20:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is your relationship to your children> Did you bring bastard children into this world, or did you bring children who were blessed into this world?

2006-08-07 07:20:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do different things make men fall for a woman than a woman fall in love with a man?
What does it everytime? A good listener? Good sex? Self effacing?
Whats the crunch? Whats the icing on the cake
Question for guys girls only reply if you partner Actually told you - no guessin games

2006-08-07 07:20:16 · 11 answers · asked by intelligensio 2 in Singles & Dating

also how come when i talk on the phone with someone i really like, everything seems fine, but when we meet up somewhere, it's like i act like a whole different person and make of fool of myself!!!

p.s. please no stupid answers. i really am serious about this!!!!!

2006-08-07 07:19:33 · 3 answers · asked by •°iiFia1125°• 4 in Singles & Dating

masterbate?

2006-08-07 07:19:11 · 4 answers · asked by Margarita 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure what to think. I mean he went to Cuba with his single guy friends without inviting me. Should I take it personally? Is it a big deal? He said he would never cheat on me, but i'm still worried. What would you do in my position?

2006-08-07 07:18:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been back in the dating scene for about six months, but the problem is I have no idea where to start to meet a new man. The clubs are the worst place. I'm a professional with no kids and i'm looking for a quality man, but when I go to speed dating events it is mainly white people. is there a place where I could find black single professionals like myself to meet?

2006-08-07 07:17:46 · 9 answers · asked by cinnamon43212002 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin is paying child support in Illinois for a child who he found out was his when the child was 5. The mother gets medical assistance, food stamps and she is on section 8. In addition to my cousin paying child support, he is supporting the child as well (clothing, food, camp, school supplies etc). Of course he should contribute to his child, but isn't this double paying? The mother said she doesn't get the support payments (I guess it goes to the state?). How can he get off of child support? Why isn't she receiving the money?

2006-08-07 07:17:17 · 19 answers · asked by Diamonds_4Ever 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-07 07:15:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 07:15:22 · 6 answers · asked by bv715 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal to love your husband but hate him at the same time? I keep telling him I want a divorce, but when he agree's with me I can't do it because I love him... Please help I am tired of being miserable! I don't know what to do!

2006-08-07 07:15:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-07 07:15:05 · 18 answers · asked by j b 5 in Family

i heard that before your 18 their is a youngest age (in the USA) that if both parrents of both people sign a permission slip or something, and someone stands for them (you know, like as a whitness of the marriage), then they can wed, but i dont know the youngest age, what is it?

2006-08-07 07:15:00 · 36 answers · asked by newischk 2 in Weddings

How many times have you cheated on your mate? What made you cheat? DId you tell you mate? Did you feel bad? Would you do it again?

**Before you get defensive, I can relate***

2006-08-07 07:14:37 · 19 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Singles & Dating

Hi can anyone help with a nice verse/poem to put in a wedding congratulations card? Its for my partners brother and his bride to be! Well she'll be his wife when they get the card!

Anything nice, nothing too godly! There not catholic so just something romantic.....Im blank! Im usually good with stuff like this!

Shame!!!
Best one will get 10 points!

2006-08-07 07:14:07 · 13 answers · asked by Hannah 4 in Weddings

how old are you ?
Kids? how many and how old are they?

2006-08-07 07:14:04 · 20 answers · asked by Boo Boo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up, w/ my guy because I found his dumb a** cheating on me, now is saying oh i'm so sorry....you know. now his is trying to make me jelious.........and I think its working, but I dont have any fillings whats so ever, why do I feel this way??? can it be my fault??? what can I do??? I feel this way and I dont even like him any more!!!! HELP PLZ!!!!!

2006-08-07 07:13:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like to snuggle , touch and feel after the loven ,but I can't get my wife to go a second round . When she's done thats it ! What can I do ? We take a break but I would like more . We are an older couple and I gues that has a lot to do with it but I 'm left hanging sort of speak !

2006-08-07 07:12:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you ever had this feeling before? I love my fiance for being the father of my baby and also for the great lover he is, but I also hate him for his past and the way he used to treat me (its a long story, but things have gotten better!)

I don't plan on leaving him, I just want to know if this is truly possible.

Thanks!

2006-08-07 07:12:06 · 59 answers · asked by Kathy S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-07 07:11:41 · 17 answers · asked by crissssstina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

November will be our 4 yr anniversary. Why is it taking him so long to get married? We have already talked about marriage and we are both committed to the fact that we were made for each other and we ARE getting married some day...but when is it too long? Will we ever get married? He says he wants children and so do I. I have 3 from a previous marriage and he loves them to death. He is 40. I am 27. He has never been married nor has any children of his own. His mother moved in with him 20yrs ago when her husband (not bf father) died. Please help.

2006-08-07 07:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by sapphiresunstar 3 in Marriage & Divorce

she want to see how it is to stay on her on . without a man. we have been together for almost four years.im the first man she has ever lived with.she want to experince more things in life but also say it has nothing to do with cheating or being with some one else
but i do know that she always said she wanted to see i it is to live by herself and spend nights with me and i spend night with her .also when she first moved with me she cried because she never been away from her mother.but we have been staying together for a year now.now our lease is up. now i want her to see how it is to stay on her own som she can experince whatever it is she want to experince she said only for a littile while.but she still want me to spend nights with her sometime.do you all think i should break up and give her what she want.but i trust her and love her truly.but sometime i think its something else but i could be wrong.

2006-08-07 07:11:04 · 2 answers · asked by vince 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-07 07:10:46 · 11 answers · asked by Steven's Girl♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-07 07:10:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 07:10:22 · 3 answers · asked by judgemartiniz 5 in Singles & Dating

Dear women, this girl calls me out to dinner almost everyday but I keep on saying I cant because I always end up paying the bill every single time and its getting unaffordable. how’s the best way to tell her off? Please advice.

2006-08-07 07:10:01 · 40 answers · asked by mario a 1 in Singles & Dating

pls tell in detail plus tips

2006-08-07 07:09:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need more myspace buddies
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2006-08-07 07:09:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 07:09:10 · 16 answers · asked by x6xmenx6x 1 in Singles & Dating