I'm ready to settle down but she isn't,?

Question

she want to see how it is to stay on her on . without a man. we have been together for almost four years.im the first man she has ever lived with.she want to experince more things in life but also say it has nothing to do with cheating or being with some one else
but i do know that she always said she wanted to see i it is to live by herself and spend nights with me and i spend night with her .also when she first moved with me she cried because she never been away from her mother.but we have been staying together for a year now.now our lease is up. now i want her to see how it is to stay on her own som she can experince whatever it is she want to experince she said only for a littile while.but she still want me to spend nights with her sometime.do you all think i should break up and give her what she want.but i trust her and love her truly.but sometime i think its something else but i could be wrong.

Answer 1

I say give her some space: Once she realizes that its not all cracked up to be, she'll come back. You sound like an amazing boyfriend to be so willing to do whatever it takes to work things out. Im sure she will see for herself and come back! I wouldnt break up unless she is talking about cheating. Then Id say leave it alone, and go separate ways. Good Luck.

Answer 2

I think she is trying to break up with you. If she truely loved you she would want to be with you, not be by herself. I think you should break up with her and see what happens.