I'm not sure what to think. I mean he went to Cuba with his single guy friends without inviting me. Should I take it personally? Is it a big deal? He said he would never cheat on me, but i'm still worried. What would you do in my position?
2006-08-07 07:18:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, he just need time with the fellas; just like we need time for our girls.
2006-08-07 07:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends (and husbands) sometimes go places without their girlfriend (wife), and they sometimes do things with their single friends. It's not really something personal against you.
The question really is whether or not you can trust him, and you seem to have a nagging suspicion that maybe you can't. Could that come from the friends he is going to be hanging out with?
Consider what your guy is like overall. Is he kind, considerate, honest, respectful--with all the people in his life including his mother/father, brothers/sisters, friends, boss, etc.? This will be a clue to whether or not you can trust him now.
For example, if he sometimes lies to his boss or to his mom to do something behind their backs, what's to keep him from lying to you now? If you know him to be pretty honest with everyone around him, you can be pretty sure that he's being honest with you.
2006-08-07 07:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, regardless if his boys are single or not men are going to be men, They look at other women they cheat with other women and do all other **** with them, then they come acting our face as if we are the only ones they've touch WHAT EVERY! Follow your first mind if you feels he may not be doing you right believe it because every time I said it about my guy I was always right so now I **** around on him and go back to him as if she an never happen because my thing is be4 u make me the fool I'm going to make you the fool 1st. you hear me! So **** him do you go have your fun tell his *** if **** ok for him to do then you can do it as well make him think you messing around even if your not make him have questions going in and out his head about you. Don't worry yourself crazy just do you.
2006-08-07 07:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You worried he might cheat??? I am sure he is not!
He probably is sick of you and needs to get away with his buddies. There is nothing wrong with that, don't you know men don't like a woman smothering them?? Let it go act like you don't care. Don't call him while he is on his trips,If you keep doing this he might become insecure one and be like "what u do when I am out of town?" LOL
Either way nothing to feel bad about!!
2006-08-07 07:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG: is his name Rotem?? hahaah... I have a friend who went to Cuba. I dont know... If he didnt invite you, might just be a getaway for the guys only! If he doesnt call you, and doesnt talk to you, then hes up to NO good... Dump him... QUICK before you catch somethin!
2006-08-07 07:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would call from time to time to find out how its going. but not too much cause he might think that ur bugging him., NOT A GOOD THING. So keep in mind, dont bug ur bf too much only if u think his really cheating. kicking him in the nuts and tell him what he did was wrong lol
2006-08-07 07:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by 5-O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Party at Visnja3's house....lol. Don't worry about it. It's a guy thing. Have a girls night out with your friends. He'll be back before you know it.
2006-08-07 07:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cuban police and tell them they are americans traveling with drugs in the country
they will get them and scare the shiit outa them if nothing else
your BF will be crying his eyes out for you!
never trust a man!
2006-08-07 07:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wishful thinking but he's probably ballz-deep in some Cuban dish, right now!!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-08-07 07:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you to serious? In a monogomous relationship? If so kick his a#! when he returns.
He'll be hitting up some cuban cuties while he's there. If you keep him i suggest HIV testing and STD exams.
2006-08-07 07:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by bella_mexicana_rellena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him then you have nuthin to worry about so the big question is do u trust him? obviously u don't if you don't iff you askin this question but yea really think about it b/c if you don't have trust ur relationship will fall apart
2006-08-07 07:24:45 · answer #11 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋