I am a very uptight person always worrying about something, i cant seem to relax or have fun and its causing serious problems in my marriage. I feel guilty if he tells me to go out so i dont but then when he does i get jelous, when he trys to get me to have a bit of fun or go out i often drive and about 1am get very tired and then want to go home, but if im not driving then i do have a good drink and relax. We have 2 kids and my hubby is a night owl whereas i am more a morning person. I cant even go to the shop without worrying about how long i am and always rush to get home. Then when he does go out i sometimes cause an argument as he can go out all night and doesnt come home till the nxt day, i trust him completely but he says i make him feel guilty going out so when he does go out he makes the most of it......i really dont know what to do, we love each other but it really is causing big problems, if the house is a mess i constantly worry about getting it tidy- what do i do??
2006-08-07
06:57:57
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ericola
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Marriage & Divorce