i just realized that know one can love me because of the way i am. I'm emotional all the time, upset, and just freaken tired. I am so screwed up. Why do i have to have these dam emotional problems. This isnt going to stop is it? Dammit, where the hell is a knife I need to do some surgery on my brain
2006-08-07 07:02:29 · 6 answers · asked by theone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe u'll fond some one 1 day
2006-08-07 07:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Maro's mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they can. I looked at some of the answers you gave and they were reasonable and caring. Very sound advice for the most part, one or two were emotional, but even you said you were.
Why were they emotional? Probably because of depression. Call your local County Mental Health Clinic or County Health Clinic and ask if they have periodic visits from a psychiatrist, most do, and they are CHEAP. So, I recommend you visit him and talk about your troubles and get some medication. Trust me, IT WILL ONLY MAKE YOU FEEL "NORMAL." Not crazy. That's the whole point of taking psychiatriatic medication, to "get you back to normalcy" to where you don't feel odd or weird.
However, once you feel "normal" please continue to take your medication, so many people stop because they feel "they no longer need it, not realizing its the medication that allows them to feel normal."
2006-08-07 14:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you gotta do is hide your emotions. This is good and bad. The good part of it is because you don't want to show your friends or girlfriend that you are a sensative person. With friends that you've known for awhile/long time,, you can trust them to show your feelings because they are there to help you and care. As for your girlfriend, take time to open up to her. You don't gotta show her right away. In other words, don't portray your weakness. If you find yourself one day with your lady, and tears come out, simply turn around, walk away, cover your face, or other things that won't reveal you weeping. You don't want to show emotions for the first few months. Take your time to open yourself to her. To be honest, I know were you come from. I know a person like you. It took time for him to open up like that to her. What I'm trying to say is that you gotta take time to trust her with your emotions. Why? You'll never know the day when she can make fun of you. Trust me, there are some girls out there that can take advantage of you. All what you gotta do is take your time and get to know her more. See if you are willing to trust her with this part that she hasn't seen. Maybe you can change it. But I don't know if it's going to be hard. But all what you got to do is learn to trust her with the sensitive side of yours. She doesn't have to know everything of you in one week or so. Take your time, dude. Learn to trust her. I hope this helps. Take care. I wish you my very best, homie. Good Luck!
2006-08-07 14:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.... the whole loving yourself thing never worked for me. my advice to you s to visibly stop being so emotional. Im not saying "bury your feelings", but I am saying "get over the Emo stuff, and try to find the best things you can to focus on and not get to Emo about the bad stuff." that's what I've tried to do, and it worked for the most part. and beyond that, just have confedence in yourself that you CAN get someone to love. good luck.
2006-08-07 14:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by elithemicrowave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a Piscean or a Cancer?
If indeed, it's ur nature to be emotional. Learn to handle your emotional imbalances, learnt to love yourself and others will love you.
2006-08-07 14:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea someone can love you but you have to be willing to let you're guard down.
2006-08-07 14:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by juz b in real wit it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋