2006-08-07 07:04:32 · 24 answers · asked by triway hottie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to them. Tell them you know what they've been doing, and work it out. If that doesn't work then move on.
2006-08-07 07:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you mean they had sex outside the relationship, and I also assume you mean more than a 2 year relationship. We need more info: Were you told of the cheating or did you catch them in the act? Was there a sincere apology? Are they willing to stay in the relationship with you?
If they are really sorry and you are not married, give them a second chance. If they are blaming this on you or the relationship is less than 2 years, leave them alone.
2006-08-07 14:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's important is what is happening now & how it affects you, not the time invested. I stayed married to a cheater for waaaay too long, just because we had been together since we were teens - it hurt my self-esteem & left mental scars (like having trust issues) I am still fighting hard to overcome. The damage may be irreparable. We went to counseling, but I was the only one willing to change & compromise - he wouldn't even take a different position so he didn't work by her side every day. If you feel he/she is truly sorry, has ended the affair & really wants to work it out AND you honestly think you can forgive, try counseling. But only IF these things are present! Otherwise YOU are just wasting your time & emotions on someone who is NOT worth it - remember, they are the one who chose to do this hurtful thing, you did not make it happen. I hope it all works out whichever way is best for you!
2006-08-07 14:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by mustanglynnie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married 11 yrs when my husband cheated I realized people make mistakes and having 2 kids gave him another chance. He isn't cheating for sex they say so find out what the problem is and maybe spice up you sex life doing other things and adding something to the bedroom to make it better. There is alot of cheating out there these days but talk to him up front and find out whats going on talking works the best not yelling and find out where you are in his life. Mine did cheat again and I did divorce him. You have to decide how you feel and if hes the one for you life or not weigh out the good and bad but do remember commincation works the best to find the solution.
2006-08-07 14:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up... once a cheater always a cheater. Its part of their personality. I know its hard, but in the end, you will find someone who will treat you better & wont cheat on you! I suggest finding out in the future if the person you like has ever cheated.. If they have... Dont date them. Have high expectations for yourself and good things will come! TRUST ME!
2006-08-07 14:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk just as simple as that. If you can't trust the person anymore there isn't any hope for a good romantic relationship anymore. If he's sorry and really is and is proving that through his actions then I'd say take them back for one last chance. Let them know you will end it with them if they ever do that again.
2006-08-07 14:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him NOW, once a cheater always a cheater I believe. Went through this 1 month ago after a 10 year relationship.
2006-08-07 14:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by michele c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... good question. What do you want to do? Its hard for us to tell you exactly because its different for everyone. If you love the person then forgive them, if you cant, then break it off. Theres no excuse for cheating and if it were me, personally, i wouldn't take that kind of disrespect.
2006-08-07 14:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by Visnja3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are showing not respect for you when they do this and breaks that trust that you have for them. usually once a cheat they will do it again. more on relationships and dating in this article that will answer you better
2006-08-07 14:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never met a cheater who won't cheat again. Hand him his walking papers.
Watch the tv show.
2006-08-07 14:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by pagan_priests 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the answer, you leave. Dont be stupid. If your partner cheated, and you forgive him/her , he/she will feel that they can do it again, and you will keep forgiving them.
Move on with another person. You'll find a wonderful person on match.com or something like it. take care.
2006-08-07 14:17:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋