I like to snuggle , touch and feel after the loven ,but I can't get my wife to go a second round . When she's done thats it ! What can I do ? We take a break but I would like more . We are an older couple and I gues that has a lot to do with it but I 'm left hanging sort of speak !
2006-08-07 07:12:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Set a romantic mood right away...candles, music, massage oils. After the first round don't blow out the candles or turn off the music. Cuddle awhile and then start caressing her again. Tell her how beautiful she is and all that crap. Hopefully this will put her in the mood again to go another round. Good luck.
2006-08-07 07:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one lucky ladie to want her man to snuggle afterwards alot of guys don't do that they just roll over and go to sleep. But you cant' always change someone set in there ways maybe you can alternate and every other time she can go that extra mile and give you that attention you want to give her I think shes sure missing out on a guy willing to give her it all. I am 43 and I wouldn't mind any attention after or a second round sure she will come around and work something out with her good luck!
2006-08-07 14:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her before you even begin and let her know what you want to do to her! Set the expectations that you want to love her all night etc...She needs to stay in the right mindset, how about mixing it up a bit, just when you feel she is going to climax change position or begin oral ,this way she is still feeling good but your keeping the momentum going.
2006-08-07 14:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try talk to her about and be honest wit her, that you need more and try different thing like toys, oils massage lotion, handcuffs and or try slap on the butt and try to use your enjoyment and maybe leather and lace or going somewhere different and or try something like going parking in a car, meet her in a hotel and be total stranger and role playing,use your mind but try talk to her first
2006-08-07 14:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by asyachynna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, i hate to break it to you but if she doesn't want another round, you probably didn't give her an orgasm and doesnt feel like she has the strength and effort to give you another orgasm because it isn't worth much to her. there isn't much u can do. her body, or her vagina can only take so much and it needs time to recover. So, either make her feel good, or get used to the one time deals.
2006-08-07 14:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Hamster Puff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just have to really work on getting her aroused again for a second round. You need to get her so hot that she can't refuse.
2006-08-07 14:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there. Tell her I gave you what you wanted and I didn't get my share. Let her have her break and then just jump on her and go for it. That can be very frustrating.
2006-08-07 14:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Keke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should play with your toy the second round and let her watch.
2006-08-07 14:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋